Dear 'Daddy' in Seat 16C Flight 1850 From Philly

1/9/2014

Dear 'Daddy',

I don't know your name but Kate called you 'daddy' for the entire flight last week and you kindly never corrected her. In fact, you didn't even flinch as you could probably tell that she was not confusing you with her own 'daddy' but instead making a judgment regarding your level of 'safety' for her. If she calls you 'daddy' then you better believe she thinks you are alright.

I sat Kate in the middle seat knowing full well that there would be a stranger sitting next to her for the duration of this flight. I had to make a quick decision and based on her obsession with opening and closing the window shade I figured she might be less of a distraction if she sat in the middle. I watched the entire Temple basketball team board the plane and wondered if one of these giants might sit by Kate. They all moved toward the back. She would have liked that, she would have made some observations that I would have had to deal with but she would have liked those players. I watched many Grandmotherly women board and hoped for one to take the seat but they walked on by. For a fleeting moment I thought we might have a free seat beside us and then you walked up and sat down with your briefcase and your important documents and I had a vision of Kate pouring her water all over your multi-million dollar contracts, or house deeds, or whatever it was you held. The moment you sat down, Kate started to rub your arm. Your jacket was soft and she liked the feel of it. You smiled at her and she said: "Hi, Daddy, that's my mom." Then she had you.

You could have shifted uncomfortably in your seat. You could have ignored her. You could have given me that 'smile' that I despise because it means; 'manage your child please.' You did none of that. You engaged Kate in conversation and you asked her questions about her turtles. She could never really answer your questions but she was so enamored by you that she keep eye contact and joint attention on the items you were asking her about. I watched and smiled. I made a few polite offers to distract her, but you would have none of it.

Kate: (Upon noticing you had an IPad) Is dis Daddy's puduter?

You: This is my IPad. Would you like to see it?

Kate: To me?????? (I know she thought you were offering it to her to keep)

Me: Look with your eyes, Kate. That is not yours.

Kate: Dat's nice!

You: (Upon noticing that Kate had an IPad) I like your computer, too. It has a nice purple case.

Kate: Daddy wanna be a bad guy? (She offered shredder to you and that, my friend, is high praise)

You: Cool.

The interaction went on and on and you never once seemed annoyed. She gave you some moments of peace while she played with her Anna and Elsa dolls. Kind of her to save you from playing barbies, but I bet you wouldn't have minded a bit. I bet you have little girls, too.

Not long before we landed Kate had reached her limit. She screamed to have her seatbelt off, she screamed for me to open the plane door and she cried repeating, "Plane is cwosed (closed)" over and over. You tried to redirect her attention to her toys. She was already too far gone at this point, but the fact that you tried to help your new little friend made me emotional.

In case, you are wondering. She was fine the moment we stepped off the plane. Thank you for letting us go ahead of you. She was feeling overwhelmed and escaping the plane and a big, long hug was all she needed.

So, thank you. Thank you for not making me repeat those awful apologetic sentences that I so often say in public. Thank you for entertaining Kate so much that she had her most successful plane ride, yet. And, thank you for putting your papers away and playing turtles with our girl.

1243 Comments

Sara

1/8/2014 10:28:40 pm

So awesome. This made me smile. I bet he smiled all day thinking about his plane ride with super-cool Kate Mouland :)

Dawn

1/9/2014 10:02:03 am

What a beautiful story , it's so nice to know there are wonderful kind people who take time for our precious kids Dear Daddy you are a true Gent and were very blessed to meet this little girl thank you for giving your time and also for making Kate and her Mammy feel happy :)

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5/24/2014 02:30:51 pm

Wow....this brought me to tears.

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5/28/2014 12:39:03 pm

Hey Cuz is this you. Very well said,

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1/14/2014 12:50:53 am

This is such a great story, it brought tears to my eyes. I have a daughter and know exactly what it is like to have to do the apologizing. The amount of stress and sadness parents feel in public when others are feeling annoyed by a child is heart wrenching. My girl is a teen now and other people no longer make me feel that way. I feel for Kate but her parents are to be applauded. What a great story. Thank you for posting.

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1/14/2014 01:07:23 am

Wow! What a wonderful story to read. I'm in tears just trying to replay the scene in my heart. If, only, we could see this type of kindness in our world as we rush through life. Thanks to Daddy for his loving heart displayed to the world.

Kathy

1/14/2014 11:52:28 pm

Thank you for sharing this heart warming experience. It reminds us all to be more kind in our everyday encounters, even after a long day. Kudos to 'Daddy' ... and to Kate for recognizing a good person.

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1/14/2014 11:53:56 pm

Beautiful, tears in my eyes.

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1/15/2014 11:38:47 am

This made me cry as soon as I got passed the first paragraph. I know that feeling of having children and looking at those annoying faces of annoyed people. I hope one day the guy comes across this story and realizes what a wonderful person he truly is.

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1/15/2014 11:41:10 am

She starts the letter by saying she doesn't know his name but wants to thank him. She how did she send him a letter if she doesn't even know his name? Maybe this never happened?

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1/14/2014 01:18:20 am

This was a very touching story and I am so glad that things turned out well. Sometimes we forget that there are still good people out there and are understanding. I imagine that the man thought about his plane ride with Kate all day. Something simple as being kind to someone can really make a difference. Paying it Forward without realizing it happens, too.

Lisa

1/15/2014 05:24:13 am

I, too, encountered an angel while on a flight, many years ago. My daughter was 11 months old, and teething. We were coming from the southern part of Mexico, and every airport we went to was closed for 2 hours for the Pope. The last flight was from Dallas to Denver. We ended up traveling for 24 hours. The last half hour on the plane, my Meghan started to cry. And cry. And cry. I wanted to cry, too, and was frantic to quiet her. I apologized to everyone around us when I could, and one lady got up and came over to me. "We've all been there," she said. "Don't let it bother you."

Since then I have repeated that numerous times to new moms. I hope they got--and will continue to get--reassured and comforted by those words, just as they did me. And, funny thing; I used to hate the sound of babies crying, and fumed and steamed when it happened. Now I smile, nod my head, and it hasn't bothered me at all.

kristine

1/14/2014 04:10:03 am

I know and known what you have gone through... I was 19 going for a check up when I found out I was almost 7 months pregnant... a few days later I had my son... but he was the size of my hand and stayed in the hospital. To find out I had a long road ahead... See he ended up having ADHD and a form of autisum....my family never took the time to understand.....so I left them for reasons only a caring parent would know...... Even having my son I graduated 2 colleges but ended up having problems personal but his love and knowing he is always there trying makes things OK......he was what saved me....I was alone and even with all the trials and bumps in the road he is 15 right now and every one knows him and is always there to help. Do not loose your heart kids are there for love. People most of all must learn patients to have it. I am proud to say good to you the proud parents of Kate and tothe person that sat with her on the plane.

Terry Bridges

1/15/2014 08:13:36 am

Praying for you....I amproud of you for your commitment to your child no matter what......you are a true mother and hero.

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1/17/2014 07:41:32 am

there should be more like him.....I have a niece that is slow and a friend that has a daughter that has issues and it breaks my heart when people stares at them or walks away when they try to talk to me....God loves them the same that He loves us and we should love them also cause it could be your child

Lesa

1/18/2014 04:47:39 am

I think this man was one of God's angels. I work with persons who are differently abled. I love what I do everyday as I see improvement or just stability in my patients. And for Kate's mother you should not have to apologize to STUPID people because Kate is differently abled. She like them are one of God's creations.

Marie

1/23/2014 07:39:30 pm

I took a four year old and a two year old on an 8 hour flight to Sweden with my husband. Unfortunately for him he had to take them back alone as I had to come back sooner for work. The flight was great at first and people seemed genuinely delighted by daughter's pure joy about the flight. But my kids are very VERY active, inquisitive, and loud. At one point my daughter just kept kicking the seat in front of her. I'd tell her there are people up there, you want someone kicking your seat, that's annoying to them, mean, etc. She'd stop for awhile. Then bam! And she'd laugh. I was so embarrassed. Eventually the seat kicking stopped, but the whining started. She wanted off the plane. She was bored. Why can't we just go out that door over there? Then crying. Talking. Yelling things with her arms defiantly crossed. Totally a terrible experience.

Several people were nice about it. My husband lost his temper and yelled at them to stop it. And the plane being full of Swedish people that didn't go well. He was chastised by an elderly lady behind us.

Then...a girl in hipster glasses turns around and hisses "Please control your child. I'm trying to sleep." I could totally empathize with her, but her tone was horrible. And it was my husband she addressed so I forcibly withheld my laughter. The "do you have kids? These are individual human beings. I've been trying since the flight started. Have you not noticed? Do you have some suggestions?" rant/questions came. She then said something snarky like you shouldn't have kids if you can't control them and turned around.

I will admit at that point I didn't care if my daughter kicked her seat but she didn't do it again. They were still whining of course (both my kids) but as we had an extra seat (because my in-laws that bought the tickets think I'm crazy fat even though the MIL wears a bigger size and is shorter and never needs two seats but I digress) as we had an extra seat my girl actually just stretched out and went to sleep. My son fell asleep in my arms and I don't know why that girl turned around again, but she was about to bitch again and saw them sleeping and looked very annoyed.

I don't think my kids have autism or anything. They're just like me. Get a bit overstimulated and overwhelmed sometimes, and I've gotten the dirty looks a lot in stores. I haven't even dared brave a restaurant. Though the MIL had us all sit down in one when I was going to just grab sandwiches and sit outside. That was a nightmare.

I don't know what my point was. Just sharing. And even us with so far as we know neurotypical children run into unpleasant social situations. I've had people yell at me I needed to smack her ass with a belt when she was two and running around IKEA yelling "I'm a princess!" and twirling. People saying shit like that's what happens when teenagers have babies (I'm in my thirties, just look kinda young), and so many glares. It sucks and I don't know what to do as I don't just let her do whatever she wants. She doesn't really respond to much of any form of discipline. Hope it gets better soon.

karolan

1/26/2014 02:04:20 am

I hope you and others, as well, will recognize special needs children are a gift. Not everyone can stand the test of time. Kate was blessed that day by a stranger who had a heart big as all outdoors. Kristine, you are a very special person and you and your son are a blessing, sweetie. Thank you for sharing. God bless!!!

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Jeff

1/14/2014 04:52:22 am

What a wonderful story. Kudos to that young man....there is nothing better than being a dad.

1/18/2014 11:35:06 am

but one can also be complete (good) without being a dad.

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1/14/2014 11:25:33 am

That is so beautiful. What an awesome father figure, and better yet, a humble man that thinks of himself no better than anyone, even wearing a business suit. Beautiful heart and soul. Bless your heart.

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9/16/2014 07:06:59 pm

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Kerry fenwick

1/14/2014 02:46:55 pm

I am reading this in New Zealand. As the mum of an autistic 11 year old I sure relate to the plane story. What a fantastic read. "Daddy" what a lovely kind man you were to Kate, wish there were more like you around!!

David in Liverpool, England

1/14/2014 05:41:05 pm

I hope I have the privilege of sitting next to Kate one day, she sounds great fun!

Alexander

1/15/2014 10:19:41 am

I hope I have a chance of sitting next to her on a plane

John link

1/25/2014 11:16:20 pm

bit suspect this comment Pal your talking about a toddler... Think this comment should be removed very inappropiate.

becca

1/15/2014 02:29:08 am

I would of done the same thing. I know screaming wailing babies on a plane can drive any person mad, but focus your brain on something else and youll be clear in no time. I am not a heartless person, I love children all the same no matter what's wrong with them. The guy who played with her to distract her from being in fear of being on a plane, you should be the king of the world, beautiful person you are.

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1/17/2014 10:22:54 pm

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michelle

1/15/2014 08:23:50 am

That made me smile so big! What a great story everyone needs to read this:)

Glm

1/20/2014 06:02:26 pm

Very nice story. Thanks to the 16c man for his kind gesture to the little girl. God Bless the Girl, "Daddy" and Girl's mom. Peace

Greetings from India !

Gill link

3/5/2014 11:50:20 pm

Bit cliche for me, but heartwarming non the less. There are some good kind people in this world who possess tolerance and patience. It was undoubtedly a difficult situation. 'Daddy' is cool!

Jay

1/15/2014 08:37:07 am

As the father of an Autistic boy, who has spent 9 year researching (I am a former NSA analyst), and has dealt with meltdowns, stimming, etc, I can give you a short list of things that changed my sons life and returned much of his brain function.

1) Chlorella (Powder, mix with Green Goodness from Bolthouse Farms for taste)
2) R-Lipoic Acid
3) N Acetyl Cystein
4) Bentonite Clay mud masque over the entire body, dry, then bath
(1,2,3, and 4 need to be done on the same day, with plenty of hydration)
5) Gluten Free/Casien Free diet for 1 year for meltdown elimination
6) Threelac probiotic from Global Health Trax
7) Vitamin B12 on Chlorella off-days.

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1/15/2014 11:32:14 pm

Add grain to this list. Thank you for posting your list. Diet plays a integral part in all mental disorders. Read ''Grain Brain''. The author was on Dr. Oz recently. I took 1 of my children off of food color dyes, wheat, corn and sugar. I saw a different child. No one needs to be eating corn! It is GMO and a cause for autism along with intestinal problems...

Doctor Mike

1/16/2014 06:16:00 am

Being a NSA analyst does NOT make you an authority on Autism therapy. NONE of the crappy things you mention could POSSIBLY help a kid with autism. Dream on...placebos work SOME of the time.

Dr Indigo

1/16/2014 08:28:12 am

Doctor Mike - I doubt he mentioned the NSA analyst bit to claim authority, but rather to point out that he is a voracious and talented researcher who spent a long time pouring over a lot of materials. Let's not be rude to people who share things that have worked for them, esp things that aren't harmful. Many of those things are a good idea and all are safe to try.

Tammy

1/16/2014 09:06:09 am

I have a 9-year-old boy who was diagnosed with "atypical" autism 2-3 years ago. I noticed that some of his behaviors were not like normal kids. He was quiet very shy when he was 3. I've tried all I can to increase his social life, track his learning and teach him whenever I can. I tried not to protect him when he needs to learn this himself. He is improving a lot and acts almost like any normal children now. So I believe Kate will improve amazingly over time, with your love and attention.

misti

1/16/2014 09:07:41 am

Thanks to my friend for sharing and the Mom who posted this....as a Christian, a Mom and a teacher I would also like to say a simple thank you to the Lord for placing this man in that very seat, the people who lifted this man, the flight, the child and Mother up in prayer and a special thank you to the man who listened to the holy spirit and looked upon this sweet angel as would Jesus.

Milkman's Son

1/28/2014 02:43:36 pm

Re: "Doctor Mike"

Hey Placebo Mike, I must have missed the "Paging Dr. Asshole: Dr. Asshole, please report to the comment section" announcement over the PA.

Go shove it, Doc.

John

1/15/2014 03:24:29 pm

Wish you the best in the future and hope you will meet more people like mr. 16C, not only on planes, but grocery stores, disneyland and wherever you go! The story moved me, not only by the mans reactions but just as much the gratitude and appreciation from your side which showing how much this ment for you and Kate. Lots of love from Norway

visionary

1/17/2014 02:23:22 pm

Great to see stories of other individual's seeing things and sharing when a lot of people only see within the limits of their blinders.

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1/15/2014 04:24:44 pm

I feel the derrogatory statements on this blog have blighted the beautiful story this mother wanted to pass along. I am the mother of a learning disabled child and one child who is so called "normal". I also am grandmother to a highly functioning autistic child. What I have found is that we all need to learn more about the afflictions of life so that we know what these special needs children and their parents go through on a daily basis. I have alway taught my children to not stare or make comments about others who were different than themselves. I taught them that it is unkind. I taught them that if the child or the parents are on board to explain more about the condition their child has, it would be a learning experience to my child but for them not to ask questions unless they get an ok from the child or the parents. I also learn daily about medical, physical, or medical conditions which I have very little knowledge of, so I look it up on the internet to get more informed and if a parent tells me their child has a certain affliction, I get permission from them to ask more about it as with a wealth of information, we all stay informed and act accordingly without prejudices and with love, honor, and compassion. This mother placed her child where she could keep a close eye on her needs, care, and safety. Autistic children are very intuitive often. It is sad that in some circumstances, there are some who cannot be trusted but we can't negate the overwhelming population in this world who are basically good people. Please, before you call names and talk disparaging to others, get the facts on a story, situation, person, place, or thing. The mother who had the bad experience was also correct in saying she needed to protect her child. Both these mothers were doing just that, protecting their child but the children are out in the world everyday. Society as a whole needs to accept that and them without disdain, anger, or hurtfulness. This was a wonderful story which should have been told to show what goodness we do still have in this world.

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1/16/2014 01:59:52 pm

What a great story! You know some people would not think twice about telling you to control your child and what a fantastic gentleman Mr. Kunkel was to make her day and yours :) I would like to make Kate a little keep sake if you could contact me at tristatecharms@gmail.com. My applause and what a true blessing to know there are still some awesome folks out there. Much Love to all of you!

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1/19/2014 01:32:56 pm

Very Well Said : ) Sad some missed the whole point of the story. Sometimes it is easier to just be quiet if you can NOT say anything positive. God bless all who this story touched.

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1/16/2014 03:33:47 am

I bet he did Sar;) And so did you sharing this story and commenting on it! <3

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1/16/2014 07:32:01 am

Amazing grace what an awesome little girl u have. To her daddy I just want to say thank you that's allll thank you....

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1/16/2014 08:31:00 am

I have a daughter with Autism and I know the acute anxiety that results from events that other parents with neuro-typical children would not even have to even think about. Thank you for giving me a little bit of optimism-people can surprise us and be compassionate, sometimes when we least expect it. I read once that instead of parents teaching their children that it's a hard world-they should teach their children to make the work less hard. Maybe that's what Eric's parents taught him and hopefully this story will inspire others to do the same.

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1/16/2014 07:30:23 pm

NOT CUTE and ALY are so WRONG. I babysit a 3 year old named Kady who is atypical autistic. Others don't understand autisim until they actually have someone to see it in the works. Kady cannot speak much, but can understand. She does have her outbursts as did Katy in the plane story. Giving Katy on the plane the added attention was so nice of the gentleman passenger. Yes all kids like added attention, but espessionally autistic ones.
Writers of NOT CUTE and ALY are NOT ones that we would want as passengers next to us ANY WHERE. They would be RUDE, BULLIES and just NOT help in ANY WAY.
I fully AGREE with all other post following ANNA.
* THANKS for you sweet story of SEAT 16C and KATY. What a true inspiration of LIFE and that WE ALL CARRY some baggage of our own and our own story.

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1/16/2014 09:09:05 am

Absolutely nothing great or appealing about this story. This story only entertain parents who feel it is okay for their kids to annoy people without and care for others. That man could have been tired as hell,but had to play the role society often expect us to play, that of being the good guy. My kids would never behave like that, neither would I allow them. Because I know how insulting some adults can be to kids and not all adults are kids friendly.
When you have your children behaving like this, they grow older believing it is okay to do it as teenagers or even adults. Behaviors like hers lead to bullying, because she believes everyone must accept her tantrums. If she demonstrated her behaviour for a few minutes then we could say it is somewhat cute or acceptable, but for an entire flight? Come on Lady, you even accept the fact that you often apologize for her behaviour and it hasn't dawn on you that your not parenting right?

April

1/16/2014 09:36:50 am

People like you are the reason that parents of special needs children fear for our children. We aren't parenting "wrong." We are being strong for the children that can't do it for themselves. Who the hell do you think you are to judge a child with disabilities. I am thankful to God that your children are healthy and "normal" but I am also thankful to God that my son is NOT. Autism along with all of the other mental disorders are REAL. And they really happen to children. Do you tell the schizophrenic to just stop seeing and hearing things that are not there? If you do, you will find out it doesn't work. It's the same with kids that have autism, ADHD, Bipolar Disorder and all of the others that exist out there. They can't control it. Maybe as they grow up they will get better at dealing with it but there is no cure at this point. Get off your high horse of thinking you are a superior parent and take the time to learn about these very special and amazing kids that are different from other. May God open your eyes and show you that you are wrong and that understanding is the way to go. In the mean time I hope that neither my family nor any other family that has special needs kids ever has to deal with your ignorance.

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1/16/2014 09:44:59 am

This is in response to "NOT CUTE": Hey douchebag! Did you happen to notice that the author mentioned a few times that her child has autism? Sometimes we adults have to fly somewhere, (for a funeral, wedding, family event) and cannot get reliable childcare for days on end and we have to bring our children on a flight. I did and yes, my children were very well behaved because that's how we roll at my house. However, they don't have medical issues that effect their brains. I am also annoyed by screaming children in restaurants and stores and especially planes, but I also know that sometimes bringing your child is unavoidable (except for the restaurant situation...please eat at home if your kid can't behave in a restaurant). Don't accuse anyone of not parenting an autistic child right and compare them to yourself unless you are willing to parent an autistic child yourself to see what it is really like. My best friends son is autistic and at times refuses to wear shoes, breaks things in public (all of a sudden, for no reason) and has the worst temper tantrums I've ever seen. She is a FANTASTIC mother and her other children are straight A students and wonderfully behaved kids. Until you know what your talking about, how about shut up with your stupid opinion.

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1/16/2014 10:45:29 am

And you know what is not cute? I guarantee the person who wrote this post. You should be ashamed of yourself and I'm pretty sure you are.

Aly

1/16/2014 11:20:04 am

I really could not agree with you more. I'm sorry that so many people are being so hateful towards you on this post for having an unpopular opinion. 99% of the time, 'autism' is just a result of poor parenting and would not happen if the parents knew how to discipline their children. I would spank my kids (if I had them) and give them a good scold if they acted out for an entire flight. Kudos to you for this post.

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1/16/2014 12:28:06 pm

To Ms Aly,

I'm glad that you admitted that you do not have children. Your a damn idiot. "99% of the time, 'autism' is just a result of poor parenting and would not happen if the parents knew how to discipline their children" So you suggest that we should beat our 2 and 3 year olds, that have been diagnosed by multiple medical professional, and they will just be cured huh? By all means please post the medical research you have to back that claim up. Ignorance does not become you ma'am. Until you have a child diagnosed with a mental disorder I would thank you to kindly shut the hell up. Until you have a child with special needs you may want to keep your ignorance to yourself. You are just making yourself look bad. If you care to share your email address I will send you a video of my 5 year old autistic nephew who is also deaf and physically disable and you can tell me how "spanking" him will make him all better. Smh. And they say ignorance is bliss.

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1/16/2014 12:45:36 pm

I find it hard to believe that an adult could make such a mind numbingly stupid observation as yours 'not cute'. Maybe its time to enter the real world.
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1/16/2014 02:17:05 pm

are "Not Cute" and "Aly" joking???!!!! Autism is caused by bad parenting and we should spank it out of them..WHAT.
You have GOT to be kidding to have uttered such an assinine statement such as that.
I DO have a child (a toddler) who happens to be neuro-typical and I can tell you that it does NOT take spankings for her to behave....it's called proper parenting. It doesn't require the use of brute force and fear. It's called fair and clear discipline, boundaries, and boundless love and encouragement!
However, for those who are parents of neuro-atypical children to imply it's somehow their fault for not spanking enough...I am simply floored at the stupidity of your statements. Have you opened a book within the last 10, even 20 years? Have you read a single medical study on PDD or autism ever...or are you simply speaking out of sheer ignorance?
Educate yourself, please. For the good of mankind. So that children you may bring in to this world don't aquire the small-minded, judgemental beliefs that you currently hold.

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1/16/2014 07:00:46 pm

You (NOT CUTE) don't impact my day in any negative way at all. Your trolling didn't work on me. In fact I feel better after reading your comment here because it made me realize that I've grown as a person. I seldom get upset by other peoples way of behaving nowadays. I also have the curage to stand up for myself and others when needed but also has the wisdom to know when not to waste energy. Writing this is not wasting my energy as you hope since I only want you to grow as a person. Love to you who ever you are!

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1/16/2014 09:14:07 pm

Wow "NOT CUTE" you really are damaged, or just plane stupid aren't you?
And I guess and hope you don't have kids.
And could you get the point of the story more wrong?
Why do you bother to visit this women's blogg just to be an asshole?

I hope for your sake that you wrote it just to provoke.
Thats still makes you an asshole though.

And to Kate and Grace, I hpope you meet more "16c" in the future.
I wish you all the best... love from Norway

Tanya

1/16/2014 10:19:54 pm

Why didn't you have the guts to sign this nasty post with your actual name? Are you hiding behind the title "Not Cute?" I hope Fox News has the ability to track your IP address and put a face and a real name to this nasty post! I would like your family, friends, co-workers and potential dates to know this is the ugly truth about you! I wonder how you would like the stares and rude comments you would live with for having to face that you posted this garbage!
p.s. it is you're not your in your last pathetic sentence.

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1/16/2014 11:30:46 pm

NOT CUTE, SHAM ON YOU AND GROW A HEART!!! GOD BLESS KATE (SO BEAUTIFUL) HER FAMILY AND DADDY ON THE PLANE.

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1/16/2014 11:45:22 pm

To Aly when you have children as you clearly stated you didn't then you can speak on it, and I pray you don't have to deal with the heartbreaking situations these wonderful parents have been dealt with. from a Mother of 3 and grandmother of 1

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1/17/2014 12:19:50 am

My reply to you could be offensive, ignorant and vulgar but that would most likely only serve to feed the need you have to do what you do. Do what you did. Surf the net and try and crank people up. I feel for your children, your spouse if you are in fact still together. I feel for your grandchildren and the lessons you pass on to those around you that learn from your examples. With that said I only question your reason for even commenting as any good parent teaches their children, "if you can't say something nice, don't bother saying anything at all!"
Have a nice day!

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1/17/2014 12:51:01 am

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1/17/2014 01:47:47 am

Not cute is just what you are. Although you got what you needed writing your reply (atattention)

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1/17/2014 04:19:54 am

Not Cute, I'm lucky enough to count the Mouland's as friends and I know no better parents. I'm constantly amazed at the devotion they have to both their children. I'm sorry that you weren't raised by people such as them or perhaps you'd have become a more understanding and compassionate person yourself. I'm sure I am joined by many others on this thread in giving YOUR parents the benefit of the doubt and chalking your rudeness and ignorance up to a child who just took everything they taught you and threw it away. Learn, live a little, then speak. Till then you're just embarrassing yourself.

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1/17/2014 04:27:43 am

aly,
you are the incredibly,ignorant,poor excuse for a human being-firstly where did you get your medical degree on autism-it is not 99% caused by bad parenting or otherwise-it is the result of the brain being short-circuited,& there are various forms of autism- it has nothing to do with bad parenting as you so stupidly & ignorantly have stated- stay in your hole MORON!!!! that's where you belong

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1/17/2014 04:47:31 am

not cute.... please educate yourself on the subject matter of autism before you speak out of your rear end again, thank you, have a great day

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1/17/2014 05:56:11 am

Not Cute, you need to crawl back into the hole you crawled out of ! You have no idea what your talking about .I have a special needs daughter and you don't know how special these kids are and all they want is a little attention and this Man was so special to give her his time and patience not all people are opposed to having a conversation with a little one. You don't know one thing about an autism do you ? Kids ask many questions and they our in their own little world but being asked to be a part of their world is some kind of wonderful .So do us all a favor and keep your horrible comments to yourself we don't want to hear them. And to Kate's Mom great job !! And to the Mystery Man thanks for kindness you have shown!!

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1/17/2014 09:34:16 am

She is autistic ...What a wonderful man to be so compassionate.

I know we shouldn't judge until we can walk in the shoes but I have to say I believe you're out of line with your comments and missing the point. We all have the right to our own opinion but I was always taught that if you don't have something nice to say it's better left unsaid.

Not cute?

1/17/2014 09:45:56 am

I don't think it said she had a tantrum the whole flight. She didn't seem to be upset until the very end. It sounds more like she just played with the guy then got upset towards the end. Many kids have their ears pop and don't know how to handle it so that might be what happened.
The guy seemed willing to play because he kept on even after the mom offered some alternative activities. Had he been exhausted and unwilling he probably would not have engaged the child. Some people do just want to rest, you are right. This doesn't sound like that case though.

squeakersii

1/17/2014 11:42:37 am

You are a total ass. I have an autistic grandson and he is the most precious thing to me.I give my daughter all the credit in the world for dealing with this horrible disorder. You can't CONTROL an autistic child especially during meltdowns. Until you have walked in that mother's shoes, keep your comments to yourself.

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1/17/2014 08:02:00 pm

NOT CUTE & ALY: You are dispicable, heartless and downright poor excuses for human beings. You disgusting people are what fail society and fail our children. You should be ashamed. This is coming from a mother of two "atypical" or "normal" children. I'm sure your parents are SO proud of you both. . .

kathy

1/17/2014 10:47:36 pm

You are ignorant .I will call you an educated,idiot. Obviously in your world every thing is perfect. As you can see in the real world not every one is perfect like you.Obviously you are like some in this world if it's not perfect kill it,hide it ,keep it in the closet. Please return to the closet .

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1/18/2014 01:25:17 am

NOT CUTE :

You are the example of what is wrong with this world.
GET OVER YOURSELF !!!!!!!

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1/18/2014 03:47:03 am

Shame on you! You are an ignorant ass!

Kimberly

1/18/2014 03:49:59 am

I'm referring to "Not Cute" being an ignorant ass!

Kimberly

1/18/2014 03:50:18 am

I'm referring to Not Cute being an ignorant ass!

Kimberly

1/18/2014 03:50:51 am

I'm addressing Not Cute!

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1/18/2014 11:11:15 pm

This is a very ignorant statement to make. Do you know what it is like to have to deal with the struggles everyday with a child that has to have extra attention and help because the mind works differently? It is not a matter of person allowing their brat to do what ever they want, it is a matter of the little girl has a mental disorder that needs some extra attention. It is obvious you do not have a child that needs a little special attention and you must be one of those people that have never dealt with this situation. I do not personally have children, but I have dealt with this all my life from friends and family members. All it takes it a little love and understanding. To which you have neither. Bless it be for the family and the wonderful gentleman for showing a little love to a stranger and giving some hope to the mom that there are people out there that do care. Not everyone is like this idiot who posted this comment. Blessed Be!

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1/20/2014 02:40:33 am

In regards to "Not Cute", I hope you never have a special needs person in your family as I am afraid it would "break" your family. Anyone who does not even want to begin to understand the need of a child with autism is the bully. You have no compassion in your heart for those you are "special". This child did not "choose" to be autistic and they really have no control over their actions; it just happens. Fortunately for her and her family YOU were not that stranger that sat next to them on the plane.

Leslie

1/21/2014 04:36:27 am

Wow.....hopefully you've been blessed with children not diagnosed with autism although having one diagnosed might slap you in the face with some reality and humanity. I wouldn't wish it on anyone but you are making it difficult not to. I myself also have been blessed with healthy children and am also blessed to be able to work with these children.

mom

1/21/2014 01:10:31 pm

Seriously ?? You obviously dont have an autistic Child ....and your claiming to be a good parent , no you make the good ones look bad

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1/21/2014 05:16:57 pm

Not Cute and Aly:

I'm a high functioning autistic who used to be a boxer. I went out undefeated and still keep up with my physical abilities.

Either of you try to spank me into a neurotypical state, I'll punch both of you into a coma. I've hurt bullies before...very badly. One of them still can't use his left hand.

And they wonder why we don't talk to people. The few of us who can communicate are appalled.

The man in 16c reminds me of so many childless men, or even men with children, who have tolerated and even entertained me when I was having a meltdown of my own. I've even had nice older women help me shop when I go out.

Do I ask? No. But it's nice.

Neither of you two have any idea what it's like to be autistic, and until you do I suggest you shut the hell up.

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1/23/2014 05:03:27 pm

Has it ever dawned on YOU that perhaps you're not parenting right? This beautiful child was born different then most people, including myself and likely you and your children and the incredible thing is that she's probably the smartest of anyone. She isn't inhibited and self conscious, she isn't judgemental and prejudiced and hypocritical and she sees the real beauty in the world and in people, and just wants to show kindness to others, and befriend those around her and I think that those qualities make this child smarter and wiser than most people I know. And certainly more so than you. You sit there and judge a mother and a CHILD as though you are better somehow? Being a judgmental, narcissistic, uneducated and ignorant human being shows that YOU are the problem with this world. Hopefully your children don't grow to resent you for stifling their passion and joy with your cruelty and your bigotry. Hopefully you never have a grandchild with special needs. People like you disgust me. This family is probably stronger then you could ever imagine and a million times tater at parenting because they understand real love and haven't let the world make them a bitter and heartless person. Do you also enjoy kicking puppies on your spare time or simply finding rare stories of kindness and love in a world that isn't always kind and loving and spewing your venom all over it to distract from your miserable life? You talk about bullying,the only way there is bullying is because people like you,who are small minded. You're an ADULT and you're bullying a child. Let's just hope that your children haven't really picked up too much from you. The only thing NOT CUTE around here is you

1/28/2014 05:58:17 am

Aly, I'd love to see the research behind your statement "99% of the time, 'autism' is just a result of poor parenting and would not happen if the parents knew how to discipline their children." As a Special Education teacher with a Master's Degree and 15 years experience and the aunt of an autistic child I've NEVER seen any research that supports your statement. I pray that when you do have children they don't have any type of disability because I would be very concerned about the abuse they would face since you seem to believe autism is the result of poor discipline.

1/31/2014 10:48:24 am

You should go find 'daddy's' response he shared with abc network. His name is Eric. He is a father, he enjoyed playing & entertaining Kate. He went on to say he was overwhelmed by the response and even got a little emotional when he said how good this letter made him feel.
Kate is autistic. She is also child and a human. Everyone deserves respect. Not just adults or parents or teachers OR you, EVERYONE.
You have no place judging anyone, but another mother? Another mother's child? I pray for you children who are growing with such displays of utterly disgusting and unwarrented hate. Shame on you. I hope clear your heart of hate, before you fill your childrens hearts with it. Shame!!

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2/3/2014 08:11:26 am

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4/17/2015 09:24:24 am

Dear Not Cute,

I honestly pity both you and Aly for not knowing the facts about the subject your speaking on. While it's true you are entitled to your opinion it is just for that reason that I will not completely lambaste you here.

Contrary to what either of you may think autism and the behaviors that come with it have nothing to do with bad parenting. So before you come to a blog like this spewing venom and hate please...do us all a favor and learn about the subject being discussed.

Thsnk you to the passenger katy called Daddy. You showed immense patience, kindness and love with her and that is a rare trait. For you to take the time and patience with katy shows you are an extraordinary man. God bless you!!!

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sir.

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Toral vora

5/10/2014 03:19:12 am

Thanks to great Dr oshogum . I Toral is so happy to let the whole word Know how this powerful spell caster saved my marriage. Everything was going down the drain as my husband can not stop cheating on me with other women. It became used to always heating on me. I tried to make him stop, but I couldn't help The situation, the more I tried, the harder it becomes. At times we Will fight and go apart for some months and we will come back again just because of our kids and his financial assistance and treatment to my sick mother. One day a friend told me about this spell Caster who helped her too, his name is Dr oshogum, she said he uses power to solve spiritual problems and she send me his contact oshogumspelltemple@live.com. I decided to give it a try, I contacted him and he told me it will take just 2 to 3 days and I will see great changes in my husband. He actually cast a spell, believe me after 3 days of the spell, my husband was confessing different names of woman he has slept with. He begged for forgiveness and never to try it again. From that day till now, my mind is at rest. My husband dislike every other women on earth except me. Immediately i told Dr oshogum about my sick mother and he demanded for items again and after same three days of casting the spell, my mother gain back her strength And she is totally healed. And am so happy to have him for myself alone.
He can also help you in your worries and pain contact him now with oshogumspelltemple@live.com or calls him now +2348189357261
contact is oshogumspelltemple@live.com or call him now +2348189357261

nelson allen

5/15/2014 12:43:27 pm

HELLO
I must testifier of a great prophet call prophet okouge who help me bring back my husband that run after a woman called Vick, my husband intend to follow her because of money and Vick is a woman of timbre and Caliban one day i was not able to sleep so the following morning then i Emali him because i have been seeing his posting on internet, prophet okouge how help me bring him back, i thought he was skamer but when he help me then i believe him then i introduce a friend of my father to him who has been an HIV positive for a year and two month's and he also solve my father friend problem today he is living a healthy life all because of prophet okouge he is happy and fine.pleas, if any problem do email prophet okougesspelltemple@gmail.com.COM

CLARA BENJAMIN

5/29/2014 03:56:15 am

GREAT FATHER

HOW DR.ORIOMON HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX HUSBAND BACK TO ME

hello to the every one on this forum ; am here to share my experience with dr oriomon about what he just did for me last week , for helping to reunited with my ex lover Mavis who broke up with me after 2 years of relationship because of his families did not like our relationship . but after Dr oriomon of oriomonspiritualtemple@gmail.com has done his wonderful work for me i was so shock when i saw Mavis calls on phone asking me to come back to him that him is ready to stay with me and beg his families to love our relationship and he actually did so and with a support from DR ORIOMON his parents that never wanted to see both of us promise to sponsor our wedding by December as we are planing now . so with this great work done for me by DR oriomon i promise not to stop telling others about his good work in my life , so if any one also need his help here i will advice you contact him to via (oriomonspiritualtemple@gmail.com) bye

CLARA BENJAMIN _ CANADA

DR.ORIOMON THE GREAT MAN OF ALL SPELL CASTER

Hilton Anderson

5/31/2014 06:10:47 am

Hilton Anderson

5/31/2014 06:10:55 am

Hilton Anderson

6/2/2014 08:50:31 am

Hilton Anderson

6/2/2014 08:50:51 am

mARY

6/2/2014 08:51:22 am

My Name is mary, From london. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called odudu prince has just done for me , this man has just

brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called john we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I

was unable to give him a child for 7 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told

me about this man and gave his contact email(oduduspells@gmail.com) then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast

and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and i go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl,

thank you once again great odudu prince for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below:

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child
(6)If you need an HIV cure
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(8) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money or call him +2347031548325

dona smith

6/3/2014 07:17:07 am

i am giving this testimony cos l am happy My name is mrs. Dona Smith from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in December this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. ADAGBA.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address adagbaspiritualtemple@yahoo.com Great ADAGBAi thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you. please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay.. What a powerful man such as Dr ADAGBA.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. adagbaspiritualtemple@yahoo.com

Anna Partrick

5/19/2015 04:04:37 pm

Thank you very much Dr Okosisi for i never thought any thing could make my husband come back to me as his wife again after he broke up with me and left to settle down with another woman who never Knew how we both suffered and share feelings together in USA but thank God today i was lucky to see this great spell caster on a site after seeing a lots of testimony and good work he have done in the lives of people helping them to get their ex,husbands and wife renewing their relationship i was convinced and i contacted him and just in 3 days after the spell was casted my beloved husband came looking for me and right now we are together again and he is taking care of me and the little kids as his responsibilities and family.I advice today if you are looking for a real and powerful spell caster just know that Dr Okosisi is a very powerful and a genuine spell caster and he don't do dark or black magic here are all his email (okosisilovespell@yahoo.com)(okosisilovespell@hotmail.com)(okosisilovespell@gmail.com)

Hilton Anderson

6/7/2014 05:18:27 pm

Anna Partrick link

5/19/2015 08:47:18 pm

Hilton Anderson

6/7/2014 05:19:21 pm

I use to be hiv positive but now i am HIV negative, i am very amazed and happy about the healing Dr Odudu gave to me from the help of his ancient herbs if you have any question for me concerning all i have said email me at: hiltonander1@gmail.com But if you feel like contacting Dr Odudu at once you can email him now for your own healing too at: oduduspells@gmail.com or call his phone number which is +2347031548325 for direct contact good luck i am Hilton Anderson...

lara

6/14/2014 02:19:57 pm

I want to say thank you thank you thank you to Ancient Dr Zuma zuk spell temple for everything so far. To everyone who doesn't believe in spell, I was one of those ones at first. I wasn't quite sure if I wanted to do this since I've tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read through the testimonials of other people at this website and after I talked Dr Zuma zuk who answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my guy back. So my story is that I was at my office when the guy I am in love with told me that he wasn't in love with me and never will be and that he didn't want to speak or see me again, especially since he was talking to this other girl. When I talked to Dr Zuma zuk, he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the ones that was to get him back to me and stay with me and want to marry me.As soon as he started on the spells, my guy came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I'm so thankful for that. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Dr Zuma zuk said would happen. He's always there when you need him and that's also after the spell is done. I'm still waiting for the spells to completely manifest, but with all that has happened so far I'm very happy because given only four months ago in March, if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now no one would believe it! Lara. contact is email address spiritualherbalisthealers@gmail.com

Hilton Anderson

6/10/2014 08:25:43 am

DR odudu is the only Dr who could ever get my HIV-AIDS cured with his healing spell, i have tried almost everything but i couldn’t find any solution on my disease, despite all these happening to me, i always spend a lot to buy HIV drugs from hospital and taking some several medications but no relieve, until one day i was just browsing on the internet when i come across a great post of !Nicole! who truly said that she was been diagnose with HIV and was healed that very week through the help of these great powerful healing spell doctor, sometime i really wonder why people called him Papa Odudu, i never knew it was all because of the great and perfect work that he has been doing that is causing all this. so i quickly contacted him, and he ask me some few questions and he said a thing i will never forget that anyone who contacted him is ! always getting his or her healing in just 6 hours after doing all he ask you, so i was amazed all the time i heard that from him, so i did all things only to see that at the very day which he said i will be healed, all the strength that has left me before rush back and i becomes very strong and healthy, this disease almost kills my life all because of me, so i will to hospital to give the final test to the disease and the doctor said i am HIV negative, i am very amazed and happy about the healing Dr Odudu gave to me from the help of his ancient herbs if you have any question for me concerning all i have said email me at:(hiltonander1@gmail.com) But if you feel like contacting Dr Odudu at once you can email him now for your own healing too at: (oduduspells@gmail.com) or call his phone number which is +2347031548325 for direct contact good luck i am Hilton Anderson. You can also contact him if you have one of the problems below he is also specialize on them..

1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child
(6)If you need an HIV cure
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8) Have you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money email him on (oduduspells@gmail.com) or call him +2347031548325

Hilton Anderson

6/10/2014 08:26:39 am

DR odudu is the only Dr who could ever get my HIV-AIDS cured with his healing spell, i have tried almost everything but i couldn’t find any solution on my disease, despite all these happening to me, i always spend a lot to buy HIV drugs from hospital and taking some several medications but no relieve, until one day i was just browsing on the internet when i come across a great post of !Nicole! who truly said that she was been diagnose with HIV and was healed that very week through the help of these great powerful healing spell doctor, sometime i really wonder why people called him Papa Odudu, i never knew it was all because of the great and perfect work that he has been doing that is causing all this. so i quickly contacted him, and he ask me some few questions and he said a thing i will never forget that anyone who contacted him is ! always getting his or her healing in just 6 hours after doing all he ask you, so i was amazed all the time i heard that from him, so i did all things only to see that at the very day which he said i will be healed, all the strength that has left me before rush back and i becomes very strong and healthy, this disease almost kills my life all because of me, so i will to hospital to give the final test to the disease and the doctor said i am HIV negative, i am very amazed and happy about the healing Dr Odudu gave to me from the help of his ancient herbs if you have any question for me concerning all i have said email me at:(hiltonander1@gmail.com) But if you feel like contacting Dr Odudu at once you can email him now for your own healing too at: (oduduspells@gmail.com) or call his phone number which is +2347031548325 for direct contact good luck i am Hilton Anderson

bella

6/11/2014 02:57:48 am

HII EVERY ONE MY NAME IS BELLA PAN FROM U S A. I WANT TO TESTIFY FOR
THIS GREAT MAN WHO IS A SPELL CASTER FORM CHILDHOOD.I WAS APPOINTED TO HIM
BY MY SISTER WHO AS PASS THE SAME WAY I WAS PASS SO WHEN SHE SEE THAT I WAS
HAVE PROBLEM WITH MY BOY FRIEND.SHE GIVE ME EMAIL OF THIS MAN NAME MR.AZZA
I HAVE A FRIEND WHO HAVE BEEN SCAM BY OTHER SPELL CASTER WHO ARE NOT REAL
DOCTORS SO I WAS AFAIRED OF BEEN SCAM BY SCANER SO I WAS EVERY CAR FULL.
BUT ALL SUPEATED THIS MAN BE A SCAN BUT HE IS REAL SPELL CASTER SO AFTER
EVERY THING WAS DON DAY 1.2.3 COME TO PASS MY BOY FRIEND IS NOT YET BACK SO
I WAS WORRY IF I ALSO HAVE BEEN SCAM. SO I PLAN TO CONTACT HIM ON THE 4DAY,
IT WAS 12NOON SOMEONE KNOCK IN MY DOOR AND BEHOLD IT WAS MY BOY FRIEND. I
WAS SO HAPPY IT WAS MY FIRST TIME TO BELIVELD IN SPELL AND I HAVE BEEN
POINT TO THE RIGHT MAN MR. AZZA . I WAS TOLD BY MY SISTER NOT TO GIVE THE
EMAIL OF THIS GREAT MAN out. BUT I WILL GIVE IT OUT SO THAT EVERY ONE, TO
HAVE ACCESS TO THIS GREAT MAN. FEEL FREE TO CONTACT HIM ON EMAIL
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CONTACT HIM ON

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THANK YOU...

madela nelson

6/11/2014 02:59:46 am

Hello I want to share a wonderful testimony on how I get cured from heart cancer, I was infected with the virus of a cancer about 10years ago, I tried all possible best I can to get cured from this deadly disease but there was no one who will help me out, I wasted a lot of moneys on different hospitals and different trials but there was no cure until a friend of mine introduces me to this greatest spel healer in Africa,and he told me everything about the dr, I decided to give him a try, so I spoke with the dr on phone and also message him through email, he ask for my details and my pictures which I sent to him also, and he told me there are some things that is needed to cast the cure which I provided according to his command, between 34minutes time dr called me and ask me to go for a check-up and which I did, and so surprisingly I was cured from the illness of Glioblastoma terminal I am so happy today that I am been cured from that horrible and deadly disease, you also can also be cured from the same dr all you have to do is to email him on DR.spellmanspellhome@gmail.COM while his mobile phone number is +2348067083632my email is dr.spellmanspellhome@gmail.com regards to doctor

Dr. Sambola

6/26/2014 06:19:52 pm

indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life. Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out.
1. To care HIV/AID or related illness
2. Bring back lost lover, even if lost for a long time
3. Remove bad spells from homes, business & customer attraction etc.
4. Get promotion you have desired for a long time at work or in your career.
5. Read all your problems before you even mention them to him
6. Remove the black spot that keeps on taking your money away
7. Find out why you are not progressing in life and the solution
8. Eliminate in family fights
9. Ensure excellent school grades even for children with mental disabilities
10. Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart
11. I destroy and can send back the Nikolos (water spirit, sleepless nite, up presses by wicked powers,) if requested
12. heal barrenness in women and disturbing menstruation
13. Get you marriage to the lover of your choice
14. Recover stolen property and whereabouts of people that hurt you.
15. Bring supernatural luck into
16. Pregnancy spell to conceive baby
17.Get your scam money back
18. if any want Interested popular in music
19. if any want Interested popular in football club

you can reach him here or if
Interested Persons should contact me via E-mail :
drsambolatemple11@outlook.com

Dr. sambola
+2348079532940

Sarah martins

7/15/2014 03:11:16 am

tucker stacey

7/22/2014 12:44:58 am

Anonymous

7/27/2014 03:31:37 pm

I want to use this medium to tell the world about Dr Kasee who helped me in getting my lover back with his powerful spell, my ex and i where having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg him several times to please forgive and accept me back because i knew i offend him but each time i went i always feel more deeply in pain and agony because he always walk out on me and would not want to listen to what i have to tell him but on one faithful day as i was browsing i came arose a testimony of a woman whose problem was worse than mine and yet Dr Kasee helped her with his spell so i was happy and also contacted Dr Kasee for help via email (onimalovespell@gmail.com) and then told him my story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe your tear out with my spell so luckily for me everything want well just as he promised and right now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is nothing Dr Kasee can not do with is spell and just as promise myself i will keep testifying on the internet of how Dr Kasee helped me.Are your problem greater that mine or less i give you 100% guarantee that Dr Kasee will put an end to it with his powerful spell, contact Dr Kasee today to help you email: onimalovespell@gmail.com

taylor borg

7/28/2014 07:27:34 pm

My name is Taylor Borg,All thanks goes to Dr.Trust for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr.Trust who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr.Trust through his mail address I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my wife will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my wife called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr.Trust for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr.Trust is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back. dr.(ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OT ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM TEL: +2348156885231)

hansford ann

7/29/2014 04:22:37 pm

My name is Handford Ann,i base in canada.i want to share my wonderful testimony on how i got back my ex-lover of my life back, who i sworn to be with until when he left me to another woman for no reason and i try to make things work for both of us yet things where getting worse and i love him so much and there is nothing i could do to get my ex back until i met a testimony share by Maria from USA on the internet talking about a powerful spell caster who brought his ex lover back within 48hours and i decide to give it a try and to my greatest surprise he also did it for me just as he did for Maria and i have a lot of people complaining of fake spell caster but this one i met was a real spell caster who help me to solve my problem i have no solution to,i introduce many of my best friends that have a similar problems,and their problem were solve with the great help of dr.Trust.they get back their ex within 48 hours.i am so happy that my ex is back to me again,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Trust.if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face ask he did to me and others.contact email(ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com call +2348156885231) what will i have done if not the great help of dr.trust. Thanks Handford Ann from canada. ....

lilia link

8/6/2014 02:42:55 am

WOUNDERFULLY DR.SELEKE AS DON IT AGAIN,THE MOST HIGH. MY HELPER.AND ABOUT ALL THE MOST WOUNDERFULLY..BE BLESSESED DOCTOR.seleke...FOR BEING A BLESSESING TO ALL DOCTOR.

it is wounderfull to be out with my ex again and i am i haveing a great time with my ex , is back becauese of this wounderfull dr called seleke.he is a wounderfull man and powerfull,he is the greatest spell man on earth it is the spiritual man of all kind wounderfull i will say this are the things he is wounderfully at......
ex back with lovers back
mariage problem and solution spells
wisdom spells
luckey spells and riches spells
job sicking spells
CURE FOR HIV AND AIDS
CURE FOR CANCER
CURE FOR MADENESS
AND ALL OTHER VODOO SPELLS
THE only places where you can get all this solve dr.elekelordspiritual@gmail.com the greatest spell man on erath and the powerfull and wounderfull man on plant earth great seleke hes wounderfull EMAIL IS dr.selekeLORDSPIRITUAL@GMAIL.COM THANKS AS YOU EMAIL OK ALL THANKS SELEKE AND THE GODS OF SELEKE..

mullar sharron

8/7/2014 02:40:08 pm

Hi everyone act there.. my name is MULLAR SHARRON i am from germany. i will never forget the help DR.TRUST render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 5 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was searching for help in the internet, i saw many people sharing testimony on how dr.trust help them out with their marital problems so i contacted the email of dr.trust i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place were i can get back my husband within the next 24hours.he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him,that he will never cheat on me again. i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don't you give Dr.trust a try they work surprises because i know they will help you to fix your relationship with your ex partner. i thank god for using dr.trust to save my marriage. contact him via (ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OR ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM) tel +2348156885231

jasmin link

8/7/2014 06:58:31 pm

I am Jasmin Fuentes from USA, my husband of 25years of marriage called James, we both had a misunderstanding which lead him to ignore me and go for another woman, I tried all I could to bring him back but there was no way out, he still insist on his words saying “he don’t love me anymore” my parents and his parents try all they could to bring him back and settle both of us, but he disagreed, I was so frustrated and don’t know what to do really, because I loves him so much than anything and he means a lot to me, I had two kids for him, but he refused to take care of us and even beat us and call me and our kids with all south of disruptive names, I brought the problem to the court, the barrister try all they could but still insist that he is going to give me a divorced letter, so on a certain day he brought a divorced letter home, telling me he does not want to see me anymore, we all packed and went to our new house, why he brought his new girlfriend home, and heard that they we be wedding this weekend, so I was crying and was in pain, because I know I did nothing wrong and don’t not know why James drove me out, so my kids home teacher came to give them their evening lessons, and was so surprised that James drove me out of his house and she asked what happened which I explained everything to her, she told me that when she was still in this type of problem, that this was how he met a spiritualist doctor called DR AWAISE, he helped her to bring her husband back home between 24hours, I was so surprised to hear that, though I don’t believe on love spells, I decided to call dr also and I spoke with him on the phone and I told him everything that is happening as at now, he told me that I should not have anything to worry about all I need to do now is to have full faith and trust on him and he is going to do everything possible to make him come back and cancel the wedding ceremony, he told me that I should send him his and my information’s to his email, which I did, in the next 35minutes he called and told me to provide some materials which he will use to make him love and bind him closer to me, which I did also, after some minutes of speaking with doctor on phone, the next thing that I saw was a car packed in my compound when I looked down to it, I was so surprised seeing my ex lover James coming down from the car, the next thought that come to my mind was this doctor is powerful and his love spells are really real, he walked down to the parlor, kneel down immediately he saw me and pleaded on his behalf that, he knows he really hurt me but I should forgive and forget everything which has happened, that he was charmed by the other woman, and he also said to me with smiles at his faces saying guest what? “that he has cancel the wedding and put stop to the relationship he had with the other woman” I was so surprised to hear that, tears of joy roll down on my face and I walked to where he was kneeling down and raise him up and accept him back, now we are now fully settle down with our kids, happiness, joy is now in our hearts and we all have peace of mind now and understand ourselves fully, I don’t have another word to say than to say I love you doctor for what you have done magnificently in my life, you can also email doctor and asked for his help but I promise you that, he is going to help you in whatsoever situation you find yourself, his works is genuine and 100% sure and guarantee and is the best services… Email DR AWAISE on LANDOFOGUN@OUTLOOK.COM and you can contact him at his phone number via +2347032286452

Jasmin link

8/7/2014 07:01:18 pm

fluentes link

8/7/2014 07:05:02 pm

fluentes link

8/7/2014 07:05:31 pm

simmon sflora

8/11/2014 06:22:14 pm

Today has being the most happiest day of my life after 1 year of sadness and sorrow without being with the one i love, i tried all my possible best to make sure i make my lover happy but it never seems to work out well it was like am doing everything in vain but all thanks to Dr OSAUYI for coming to change all my worries and sadness to Joy. i knew the great man when i read some wonderful reviews about Dr OSAUYI how he has helped a lots of people on there relationship problem i was reading a magazine which then i saw great testimonies as well which then i decided not to waste time because i have missed my lover so much i decided to contact him and share all my problem with him which then he told me not to worry that he assures me that within 48 hours everything would be sorted out i believed Dr OSAUYI so much because i believe he can't fail me but truly Dr OSAUYI never failed me a man that stand on his worlds is really a man,my husband who left me for good a year plus replied my text and returned my calls and asked me to please forgive him i was so happy am so grateful to Dr OSAUYI for what he has done for me if you are there pass the same problem or any kinds of problem just contact the great man on OSAUYILOVESPELL@GMAIL.COM or call his mobile number +2348100515075.

Sarah martins

8/18/2014 12:21:38 pm

My name is Sarah matins. I am from Dubai i am here to spread the entire work of a real spell caster called Dr. Trust who just helped me to retrieve back my union with my husband and make our relationship very stronger and brought joy and happiness into our marriage. I have been scammed by a lot of fake spell casters but i was later introduced to Dr. Trust by a friend named tucker stacey to this great man who help her to restore her relationship back with his husband.He also help me and wipe away my tears. So viewers of this wonderful testimony who wants to contact him like:ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHAOO.COM
1. GETTING YOUR EX LOVER BACK.
2. DIVORCE SPELL.
3. WINNING LOTTERIES.
4. BREAKING OF GENERATION COURSE.
5. GETTING OF JOB.
6. CHILD BEARING.
7. MONEY SPELL.
8. CURING OF HIV AND MANY MORE.
9. HERBAL CARE.
10. BEAUTY SPELL.
11. BUSINESS CHARMS TO ENQUIRE MORE CUSTOMERS AND LOT'S MORE..
So brothers and sisters i have tested this man DR. Trust and i have found that he is real and genuine. i am now the happiest woman on earth today, Contact his via email id and be joyful in your life.(ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com Tel:+23481566885231).
More gratitude and thanks to you again the great DOCTOR

Mavis

8/28/2014 12:08:53 pm

I want to share my testimony to every body on this site because of what this great man called Dr.EKPEN TEMPLE have just done in my life. I really appreciate Dr.EKPEN TEMPLE who helped me to bring back my fiance back to me after 3 years and 8 months of sepration, I now know that Dr.EKPEN TEMPLE is the greatest spell caster on earth because he has just proven it to me this is like a dream to me i never thought i will be able to smile with my fiance by my side some day but right now my heart is filled with joy and i really appreciate what Dr.EKPEN TEMPLE has done for me. If you want to reach Dr.EKPEN TEMPLE send an email to (ekpentemple@gmail.com)

Shella Morris

8/29/2014 08:14:09 am

I Never believed i was ever going to be HIV Negative again,Dr Molemen has given me reasons to be happy, i was HIV positive for 2years and all the means i tried for treatment was not helpful to me, but when i came on the Internet i saw great testimony about Dr on how he was able to cure someone from HIV, this person said great things about this man, and advice we contact him for any Disease problem that Dr Molemen can be of help, well i decided to give him a try, he requested for my information which i sent to him, and he told me he was going to prepare for me a healing portion, which he wanted me to take for days, and after which i should go back to the hospital for check up, well after taking all the treatment sent to me by Dr Molemen, i went back to the Hospital for check up, and now i have been confirmed HIV Negative, friends you can reach Dr Molemen on any treatment for any Disease he is the one only i can show you all up to, reach him on (drmolemenspiritualtemple@gmail.com) or call him on +2347036013351 ....

franc link

8/29/2014 09:45:02 am

My Name is frank am from london..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contacted this man called .Dr.AZZA.He is really powerful..My wife divorced me with no reason for almost 5 years and i tried all i could to have her back because i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 4 years with two kids and she woke up one morning and she told me she's going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her properties from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 5years.So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution.so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she's with a man and that man is the reason why she left me.The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this.he told me i will see a positive result within 24 hour..24 hour later after the spell has been casted,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant again ..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kids..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever be thankful to her..he has helped many friends too with similar problem and they are happy and thankful to her..This woman is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out.
ou can reach him here....dr.azzalordspiritual@mail.com
1. Get your scam money back
2. Bring back lost lover, even if lost for a long time
3. Remove bad spells from homes, business & customer attraction etc.
4. Get promotion you have desired for a long time at work or in your career.
5. Read all your problems before you even mention them to him
6. Remove the black spot that keeps on taking your money away
7. Find out why you are not progressing in life and the solution
8. GET CURE FOR HIV AND AIDS AND CANCER
9. Ensure excellent school grades even for children with mental disabilities
10. Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart
11. I destroy and can send back the Nikolos if requested
12. heal barrenness in women and disturbing menstruation
13. Get you marriage to the lover of your choice
14. Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
15. Ensure success in work and business
16. Mental illness & bewitched
17. Can?t sleep at night or walking at night
18. Recover stolen property and whereabouts of people that hurt you.
19. Bring supernatural luck into you
20. Pregnancy spell tp conceive baby
you can reach him here....dr.azzalordspiritual@mail.com

franc link

8/29/2014 09:45:57 am

franc link

8/29/2014 09:46:38 am

Anderson Morrison

8/30/2014 03:06:15 am

I want to thank God for the use (Doctorfadeyitempleofspell@gmail.com) as my source of salvation after 2 years of unemployment and my lover left me alone for 2 years, only broken heart until I met after a Dr.Fadeyi ladies testimony how he was helped by the same Dr. fadeyi, so he decided to contact him and when I told him all my problems laughed and said this is not a problem. everything will be fine in three days. Exactly on the third day of my ex lover call me surprised me and what surprised me most was that a company applies for more than four months ago called and said I should return to work as soon as possible.Am very grateful to Dr. fadeyi, if you wish to contact him, his email is (Doctorfadeyitempleofspell@gmail.com) he makes the spell follows
One-against witchcraft
Two-Contra misfortune
3 - Magic Wallet
4 - to become like
5 - against divorce
6 - Provocation divorce
7 - Return of marital love
8 - Gain Easy
9 - vs. poison
10 - Total Impotence
11 - against unwanted assignments
12 - to occupy a place in society
13 - Development of sex
14 - Early Menopause
15 - Epilepsy
16 - Sickle Cell Disease
17 - Debate woman, man
18 - Land Debate
19 - Heartbeat
20 - Ulcers
21 - to hinder a situation
22 - Protection from enemies
23 - against the weakness of pregnancy
24 - Tetanus
25 - female and male sterility
26 - Memorandum
27 - Soaps will have the opportunity to review
28 - Azoospermies
29 - against spells
30 - Protection return to sender
31 - painful Standard
32 - Hypotension
33 - Hypertension
34 - against strain
35 - Mental depression
36 - against attacks
37 - Ce-Demes
38 - to cause menstrues
39 - to regularize the rules
40 - to save a person
41 - to avoid making dead children
42 - to attract customers
43 - easy to impregnate
44 - to prevent a woman out
45 - for being a witch
46 - to neat the madness
47 - Join for a boy
48 - against waste
49 - against divorce
50 - to resume his wife or her husband
51 - to own at work
52 - to be busy
53 - Keep your business well
54 - go have a help and reuissir
55 _ Hiv cure
56 _ Cancer cure

You can contact dr fadeyi on doctorfadeyitempleofspell@gmail.com or call Doctor on +2348109468820

Shanina douglace link

9/10/2014 08:27:42 am

Probably all this testimony you read about spell casting online are spam right?And yeah some are spam some think all of them are spam which is totally not bad and i also know some believe spell casting really works but have not been able to find the right one.Well i think i found the right spell caster Dr jaja.I know he is real not cos he helped me but because i was there in his temple i Have seen him and his temple and i tell you it can’t get more really that what am writing now.I know you may want to know why and what lead me to contact a spell caster i am an American woman here in USA by name Shanina Douglace as a matter of fact in America having a male child is like the most important thing in a marriage and it turned out that i am married to a very traditional man as he believes the male child carry the family name on and on but the females get married and change there name which is true.I were married for six years and i had no male child for him .Maybe friends and family filled his head with a lot of things like i don’t have a male child for him and as a result he need to get a divorce and get another wife that can bear him a male child.I always thought the people that filled his head with this ideas where is family and friends the people that i smile and dine with.The very people who ought to have advice him rightly.I never found out if they where involved in wanting to ruin life and my marriage.Not because i could not find out but cost i didn’t want to develop hatred for them cos i will always get to see them and it is not really healthy seeing the faces of people you hate.At that time, i mean before i knew my husband got himself a lover i was paranoid about him having a lover cos our lives changed a lot he starting coming home late he wouldn’t touch me any more and even he started avoiding me in our home making up excuses to stay all day in his study room doing nothing and telling me his need something off to clear his head.We had fights all the time i brought up the matter if he was seeing someone else.Maybe he got tired of lying i don’t know he finally asked for a divorce.A divorce my family saw him through his university and got him a job i told myself and now he’s asking me for a divorce cos i don’t have a male child yet for him.He was ready to let go of his three beautiful daughters he asked that i take them along.Maybe he was a real f**l and didn’t know what he had and maybe he didn’t deserve someone like me but one thing was crystal clear to me i was still in love with him and i wanted a complete family for my kid that and the fact that i raised him from the gutter i didn’t care about any of his problem when i married him and i forgot to say my father never approved our marriage but still i jumped into it thinking we are going to have each other forever.Though we are still together now but its cos of the spell i had jaja12demonspell cast on him to make him see how much he needs me in this life.When i contacted Dr jaja he asked that i get the materials for the spell which i did and delivered the materials to him in person that is to say i came in contact with him.I was to return in to his temple in 4 four days and within those 4 days he gave me a blessed red candle asking that i command and say whatever i wanted every night within those seven days which i did on the 4thday when i returned to Dr jaja temple he gave a harmless powerful substance with instruction on how to use it.This might seem like fiction or lie or what ever you lucky reads may think but deep down you know its true you just looking for a way not to get involved.I ve got my husband back and my family And also i have 2male children which i gave birth into as twins baby boys if not for Dr jaja where will i have been now, may be my enemies will be probably laughing at me but all shame to the enemies all my thanks to the spell caster dr jaja for every of his helps towards my life and marriage.
contact him with his email if you want his help also jaja12demonspell@gmail.com
or His cell phone number +2347062241597 you can contact me here if you are having problems in reaching him my email is.. Shaninadouglace@gmail.com
thanks to him again am sooh much happy right now

taylor borg

9/16/2014 07:08:46 pm

judith link

9/28/2014 06:55:18 am

hiv

10/7/2014 01:10:38 pm

Lorna Harmon · Universidad de San Carlos de Guatemala
MY HIV DISEASE WAS CURED BY DR NICE, WITH HIS HERBAL HEALING SPELL/ (okunadelovespell@gmail.com )DR okun is the only Dr who could ever get my HIV-AIDS cured with his healing spell, I have tried almost everything but I couldn?t find any solution on my disease, despite all these happening to me, I always spend a lot to buy a HIV drugs from hospital and taking some several medications but no relieve, until one day I was just browsing on the internet when I come across a great post of! Michelle! who truly said that she was been diagnose with HIV and was healed that very week through the help of these great powerful healing spell doctor, sometime I really wonder why people called him DR NICE I never knew it was all because of the great and perfect work that he has been doing that is causing all this. so I quickly contacted him, and he ask me some few questions and he said a thing I will never forget that anyone who contacted him is! always getting his or her healing in just 6 hours after doing all he ask you, so I was amazed all the time I heard that from him, so I did all things only to see that at the very day which he said I will be healed, all the strength that has left me before rush back and I becomes very strong and healthy, this disease almost kills my life all because of me, so I went to hospital to give the final test to the disease and the doctor said I am HIV negative, I am very amazed and happy about the healing Dr okun gave to me from the ancient part of Africa, you can email him now for your own healing too at :okunadelovespell@gmail.com or you call him on +2348110651073

judith link

9/28/2014 06:55:40 am

faith

9/28/2014 09:57:01 pm

Hello, my name is Miss faith, I'm from UK. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine and real. I never really believed in any of these things but when I was losing Garvin, I needed help and somewhere to turn badly. I found consultant.odia spells and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Several days later, my phone rang. Garvin was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn't brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone who is in my old situation to try it. It will bring you a wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you. The way things were meant to be." you can contact the spell caster on ogbonispelitemple@hotmail.com he's very nice and great.

Taylor Borg

10/27/2014 05:04:41 pm

daisy maya

11/19/2014 05:52:19 am

i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive. but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce. my whole life was turning apart and i didn’t know what to do .he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so i decided to try it reluctantly. although i didn’t believe in all those things… then when he consulted his gods and cast a return and love spell, after 3days, my husband came back and was pleading. he had realized his mistakes. I just couldn’t believe it. .anyways we are back together now and we are happy. in case anyone needs this man, his email address is eromosalspiritualtemple@gmail.com or thought hid website http://eromosalspiritualtemple.webs.com or call him with +2348161850195

Paul Muller link

1/15/2015 08:11:24 am

My Name is Paul. I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from engage to Single…when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life…I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job…he told me he gonna help me…i don’t believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to Germany the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he’s busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday.My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she’s doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my my girl friend called and he said i haven’t seen anything yet… he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume work on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit i have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with a baby boy and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to priest_gbenga.magic_temple@priest.com, I cant give out his number cos he told me he don’t want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay. You can also visit him on his website www.priestgbengamagicpalace.webs.com
PAUL MULLER

suzee

1/16/2015 08:37:06 am

Now I know that Dr.Abolo whose details are (abolospell@hotmail.com)-(+2347052534659) is a like a great mathematician who has all the required formulas to solve any kind of relationship problem. I confirmed it when I contacted him for help to help me bring back my ex lover which he did just within the speed of light and since then me and my lover has been living happily and also our relationship is protected by his great power. So I will use this opportunity to publish his details to any of you out there who need help...Here are the details (abolospell@hotmail.com) or (+2347052534659) I which you good luck.

Joyne Robin

2/23/2015 10:35:57 am

“Thank you for making my wish true! I was totally devastated when Frank left me. It was like all my world vanishing into sorrow and pain. But your kind words when I first emailed you gave me hope. I felt how sincere, honest and authentic you were from your first email. I know it sounds weird but out of all the casters I contacted, you were the only one to give me that impression of being so true and caring. More than your words, it’s the fantastic work you accomplished for me that I will keep in mind. You brought my lover back and you made all my wishes come true. He’s now loyal, pays attention to me, he offers me flowers every Sunday, and we often go out at the cinema or at the restaurant. I will be forever thankful for turning my life from hell to heaven!” CONTACT via EMAIL: LORDSHAKIKISPELL@GMAIL.COM . or LORDSHAKIKISPELL@YAHOO.COM.+2348100399287
or you can also contact him through his website http://lordshakikispell.webs.com

Natali McKee link

4/7/2015 05:03:24 am

I just read this today for the first time. Thank you for sharing. This story makes me want to be a better person!

Amy peter link

4/25/2015 01:42:17 pm

I am basically writing you back to give you all of my thanks. Ever since I finished working on the first kit (Love Me Again), my results have been excellent. All I can say is YES, YES YES!! You have been a great help to me and very patient as well. That is so important. When people start working on things that are new to them, there is so much that they don't know. Especially since working on such kits you are calling on spirits for help and you don't want to make any mistakes because you're afraid that anything could go wrong if the work is not done right (such as myself) and I know that I have questioned you a lot. I can admit that I was having some doubts at first and that I was just hoping that this relationship could be helped due to all of the negativity in the relationship. Now I know that there was help and hope for us once again. You have been the best as far as love spell is concern and responding to questions in a timely manner. And I can also tell that you as the support staff are very bright and well educated people. I just wanted to leave you with this note. But mainly you. Even though I know that there are other spell caster, you have been the one that i have really seen a good result from the casting of the spell....thanks once again {Dr Royal}( Royallovespell@gmail.com )(Royallovespell@yahoo.com)or his website (http://Royallovespell.webs.com) or call him on +2349037171626,....

Adams Bella

5/4/2015 09:08:39 pm

My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.azen of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.azen you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on (dr.azentemple@hotmail.com) or call him +2348107642990. he is the best caster that can help you with your problems

Sharon billy

5/26/2015 12:11:19 pm

i am here to share my testimony on how i conceived my baby. i have been married to my husband for 12years without no issue.i had problems with my mother in-laws even my husband started to have new affairs aside our marriage. it was a very terrible thing to bear. i became a laughing stock among my pear, i prayed and fasted and nothing happened. i was now seen as always unhappy.i was even ready to pack out of my marital home and stay on my own because my husband was not given me any attention that i needed from him. i decided to focus on my job and try to live happy on my own. on this faithful day, i decided to check the net for updates on healthy living and i came across a story of a Great spell caster called Dr Okaya helped his wife to conceive a baby. i decided to put a try because this has been my greatest problem in life. today i am a proud Mother with two son. words will not be enough to explained what this man did for me.i am a happy mother,i know there is someone in same condition and you feel there is no way. i urge you to contact him. This is the solution to every single mother around the globe. distance is not a barrier, he will surely make your dreams come trough. contact him today via email Id {OKAYASPELLHELP@OUTLOOK.COM) or call him +2348078291904

dizzy Alex

5/26/2015 12:26:24 pm

I AM DIZZY ALEX FROM UNITED KINGDOM ,,,I have been in great bondage for about 7 years suffering in the hands of a cheating husband. We were living happily until he meant his old time girl friend and he started dating her again outside our marriage and before i knew it he stopped caring for his own family, to the extent that he was planning to marry her and divorce me. I cried and reported him to his family members but he never listened to anyone and to cut the story short, i came in search for a real spell caster who could destroy their relationship and make him come back to me and our 2 kids again; on my search i saw people sharing testimony on how their marriage was restored by DR OKAYA and i pick his email and told him the problem that i was going through, and he agreed to help me and told me never to worry. After he had finished casting the spell, on the second day, they both had a quarrel and he beat up his girlfriend and he came back home begging me to forgive him that his eyes are clear now that he will never do any thing that will hurt his family again and promise to be a caring father and never to cheat on me again. I am so happy that i did not lose him to the girl and all appreciation goes to Dr. OKAYA for his great work. You are a Great spell caster and to you all that are faced with this or similar problem to this, please contact him now on OKAYASPELLHELP@OUTLOOK.COM

Alice

6/3/2015 10:08:35 am

This is a very joyful day of my life because of the help Dr.Aikobaya has rendered to me by helping me get my ex husband back with his magic and love spell. i was married for 6 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Aikobaya email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good. He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really enjoying my marriage, what a great celebration. i will keep on testifying on the internet because Dr.Aikobaya is truly a real spell caster. DO YOU NEED HELP THEN CONTACT DOCTOR Dr.Aikobaya NOW VIA EMAIL: aikobaya24hourslovespell@gmail.com

Reta

8/11/2015 04:40:30 am

Yes, these passengers are rare and hard to come by... everyone is so wrapped up in themselves--their own personal lives. It's so refreshing, not to mention heartwarming, when a stranger makes a decision to be kind. And it IS a decision. Life is difficult enough for parents of children with autism-- and very painful to watch others be unkind or easily annoyed and/or irritated. This was a sweet story! :)

Stephen O'Brien link

1/8/2014 10:41:53 pm

Easily the most heartwarming story I've heard since you've started the blog. It is intersting to me that , from your description, the average person would have misjudged this kind soul as a Type A Executive with all its negative connotations as easily as the average person would misjudge Kate as misbehaving. It is Karma at its best that they ended up meeting in such an intimate way.
Love, love, love your blog.

Maja

1/13/2014 02:15:15 pm

I travel a lot and, hate to admit it, am not very empathetic to others. The next time I have a child kicking my seat, screaming/crying, etc. I will be reminded of this man's kindness to another human. A several- hour-flight is just a blip of time in my life … and maybe I can learn a life lesson from someone like Kate.

Spuds

1/14/2014 05:12:38 am

Maja,

I'm with you on the patience thing. I also need to be more patient. I work hard to over come my weakness of patience, but I have not conquered it. It is extremely difficult for me. I have a hard time even at a store with kids screaming their lungs out. I take a deep breath and try understand and not judge the parent for whatever they are doing/not doing. I'm glad I'm not the only one that needs more patience and practice to conquer it. Good Luck over coming your weakness in patience. You can do it and so can I! Good Job!

Carolyn link

1/14/2014 08:26:28 am

I am a teacher....a teacher of kiddos who have orthopedic impairments and traumatic brain injuries (K - 12). Some parts of the school year, I am not especially patient--especially during the end of each semester, District and State testing, and usually right at the end of the school year. But I can generally pull myself together enough to respond to a sweet kid. I like kids, but sometimes I can't seem to muster the appropriate, caring, and sharing personality that I usually have (contrary to what my high school students might say). My apologies to those who've been stuck with the grumpy me--hopefully, this will be a reminder that I'll feel better with a positive experience between any child, parent, and me. Wish me luck to maintain the sanity within this crazy world.

Kathlee which wan

1/16/2014 06:11:34 pm

I learned patience a very long time ago. I travel a lot, on some very long flights and I always carry balloons with me....the king used to make balloon animals, etc. I remember one flight in particular, a long one, where there were a number of children and small babies aboard. A lot of them got very restless and, instead of just sitting in my seat, I started making various balloon animals, in font of the children who were either crying, kicking and/or squirming about. After making a couple of them, those children settled down and watched me. I ended up making quite a few balloon animals on that flight, for every child. My reward was the smile on each one of their faces as I handed one to each child. After the flight landed and all were getting off the plane, there were the children...happily holding on to their balloon animals as they walked off that plane. :) The children were happy and the parent/s were happy. Yes, I was tired, but my reward were those smiles from the children who were just being themselves....getting restless on a long flight and having to stay in such a small enclosed area at their seats. It really doesn't take a lot to put a smile on a child's' face. If there were more people like 'Daddy' in seat 16C on that plane, the innocent hearts of small children would be smiling all the way, on a long plane flight.... God Bless you, Sir, for being next to Kate and putting a smile on her heart. ♥ :) To Kate's Mom...Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story. Give Kate a hug from me, from Nova Scotia, Canada. You're a great Mom and Kate is a real sweetheart.
Regarding those who wrote negative comments about the post, all I can say is that I'm so sorry for your child/children, and to the woman who doesn't have any children, maybe you should think twice before having one! That is my opinion and I'm sticking to it.
To those who have the patience and do help...... (((hugs))) to you also.

Stacey Dowson link

1/14/2014 02:18:56 pm

Best comment so far. It's not about precious kids over and above adults but it is about caring and sharing with others, whether they are kids with autism or adults in suits. Good on you Stephen too.

charlotte

1/15/2014 04:36:47 am

that was a very touching blog and it was great that the lord put that special man in 16c and what goes around does comes back so good things will come his way. i just wanted to ask mr o'brien are you 16c, by any chance?

Åsa

1/18/2014 04:59:55 pm

Stephen, So true! It's so easy to assume things about others and then let that define how we act/think.

Ish link

1/8/2014 11:00:27 pm

What a fantastic guy!
This was beautiful to read.

Gitan

1/13/2014 10:00:40 am

Fortunately--very fortunately--the guy was not a pedophile! "Hey little girl, wanna see what's on my I-Pad?" A man once tried to expose himself to my daughter on the metro, he was subtle about what he was doing and he looked "normal." Scary!

When a man goes along with being called "Daddy" by a little girl, this should raise red flags!

Brian

1/13/2014 10:20:40 am

Sad that you feel that way about society. Maybe , just maybe Kate found a decent man with someone as special as Kate in hs life somewhere and that s why he was kind and decent to her.
Sorry for your daughter's horrible experience, but not everyone nice to little kids is a pedophile.

Caren

1/13/2014 10:27:14 am

I find it so sad that instead of seeing the kindness and compassion found here, you instead saw the possibility of "ugliness". I'm sorry for your past sad experiences and hope that you can get past them in order to see the beauty in life.

Max/SRP

1/13/2014 11:52:48 am

I found this story to be wonderfully heartwarming, but this comment has taken some of that wholesome shine off. It's sad that we live in a world where people go straight to imagining potential threats instead of appreciating a beautiful moment.

Gitan, what observation have you made to determine that he is *not* a pedophile? Is it the fact that he didn't abuse her? Contrary to popular belief, not all pedophiles are abusive. Pedophilia describes a person's sexual interest, not their behavior or their empathy or ability to control themselves or their ability to distinguish right from wrong. I'm not saying he IS a pedophile, but surely you couldn't have gathered any information from that story to conclude either way. I am terribly sorry to hear what happened to your daughter, but it sure sounds to me that she was the victim of an exhibitionist with ethical shortcomings. Pedophilia very well may have had nothing to do with her incident, so I ask that you try not to cast blame on the easiest scapegoat. Don't let the actions of a single man represent your opinion of a population he may not even belong to.

Gitan

1/13/2014 12:36:09 pm

I probably used the wrong word with "pedophile." Maybe pedophiles are nice, but I don't want to find out by allowing my daughter to interact with any. The man who exposed himself to my 5 year old daughter was specifically targeting her. I am guessing he had a sick reason for wanting to expose his genitals to a little girl.

Children are victimized all the time and often say nothing. It is the parents responsibility to watch out for children. Fortunately, I took notice of the man's overly friendly actions with my daughter and he ran off quickly. My daughter still saw his genitals, and it makes me sick to think of this guy one day going along with being called "daddy" by an innocent little girl.

Max/SRP

1/13/2014 01:15:14 pm

Thank you, Gitan. Again, I am sorry about what happened to your daughter.

mandy

1/13/2014 03:43:44 pm

Gitan you're an idiot. You missed the point of this post completely.

june bug

1/13/2014 04:54:07 pm

Oh shut up...debbie downer

Mike

1/13/2014 09:50:06 pm

I'm sure Gitan doesn't miss the point behind the story at all. I'm sure Gitan fully realizes that its a story of a great interaction that instills more goodness into the world. That not everyone is bad.

But I'm ashamed at those of you who despite Gitan's comment. Gitan had a terrible experience, just as the author had a great one. It goes both ways. It's being open to the good, while still recognizing there is bad lurking about. None of you can discount the experience Gitan had. Its not Gitan's fault, its the creepy person who abused their trust.

I'm ashamed that while many of you can recognize and praise the authors experience, that you can then be so critical of Gitan's.

Jane

1/13/2014 09:50:55 pm

Of course, if a woman had gone along with being called "mummy" then she would be A-OK... Since females are never sexual predators or abusive... Hypocrisy. Purely and simply.

lisa

1/13/2014 11:39:54 pm

Gitan, my heart aches for you knowing that you live in a world of doubt and "red flags "...your fear is causing you to miss out on a lot of great experiences. Yes, we must protect our children and teach them to be cautious but not allowing them to interact with a stranger in your presence or causing them to think that ALL strangers are pedophiles is doing them more harm. I am soo proud that my now 21 and 22 year old kids grew up thinking positive things about people they met.

Stuart

1/13/2014 11:58:47 pm

I’m sorry, but Gitan IS an idiot.
Seriously, it must suck to be you. Suspicious of everyone and automatically assuming everyone is a danger.
Or is it only men Gitan? Are all paedophiles all men in your head? I find you exceedingly offensive.
What a wonderful story, ruined in part by your moronic comments.

pam b.

1/14/2014 12:26:20 am

Believe it or not autistic children are often more perceptive of a person's inner demeanor than one might think. Having raised an autistic child myself (my son is 25 and still lives with us) as well as having a granddaughter with autism) I can fully understand mom's wariness with any stranger. I don't know if it is ESP or some trait of the autism, but whatever it is it works. My son can tell pretty quickly if he will get along with someone or not and has had to change therapists after only one meeting because he knew they would "click". But this little angel was very aware of this man's intentions from the moment he sat down. Kuddos to both the caring man and mom for having such patience to work with and handle what can be a very trying issue (autism) with such love and grace.

Richard Pawley link

1/14/2014 12:33:05 am

I'm sorry for the bad experiences your daughter had but I would have been tickled pink if "Kate" had called me "Daddy". I'm the oldest of 8 and have 27 nieces and nephews but no children of my own. One of the biggest emptiness of my life is that I never had children, especially a daughter. Little ones as young as Kate (I have a new grandniece named Kate) have not been in the physical world very long so they often still possess a spiritual awareness that adults have long forgotten. Sometimes they can sense the good or evil of a person much better than an adult. In my autobiography I mentioned a little tyke I saw in a restaurant about 20 miles from West Point (a long ways from South Carolina where I grew up). She was with a couple that I assumed were her parents. The young man was in an army uniform and the little girl was as cute as a button, much like the Kate of this story, and the parents were having a bit of a time with her, so I said a prayer that God would bless the little girl and give her a measure of peace and also her parents. The girl began insisting that she be taken out of her high chair and nothing would do until she was on standing on the floor.
She was about 2 years old and at least three tables away from me but she immediately started running as fast as her little legs could carry her across the restaurant until she reached my table where I was sitting waiting for my lunch and then she grabbed my leg and hugged me.
I was as almost as surprised as her parents who were from Ohio and the husband was doing six months of service at West Point in the lull between Desert Storm and 9/11. We talked for a few minutes when they came to get their daughter. As a follower of Jesus I believe this little girl felt the love of God coming through me and responded the only way she knew how. Jesus said "God is Love!" and if you will try praying for someone, troubled or perplexed, not just children, you will sometimes see them turn and look exactly in your direction, even if you are in a car or some distance from them. Adults, unless they have grown in faith and spiritual awareness, don't often have the sensitivity of a young child, but some can still feel the warmth of God in the prayers of others. Next time you are in a restaurant, or traffic or waiting in a line,and see someone who looks like they are sad or need help of some kind, just say a heartfelt prayer that God would bless the person, and if you truly mean it, don't be surprised if they turn and look in your direction. They won't know why of course, but you will, and your prayer, if heartfelt will have real value to them.

Shauna

1/14/2014 12:41:11 am

It is of course always best to air on the side of caution, and much harder for people who have been victimized to see everyone as a suspect. Its not idiotic, but statistically not a sound method, as only 10% of all child molestation acts happen by strangers. I'm very much appalled by the name calling from everyone else and the push to try to make this a double standard, knowing that your child's innocence is constantly at risk with 1 in 3 women have been victimized and 1 in 10 men. The double standard isn't a double standard, its statistics as only 4% of sexual molestation is caused by females. Not to say females aren't capable, they can be just as heartless, there are just not as many. Its sad to not be able to see the good in people, and there are good people, lots of them. Given the proper motivation, great people, but for people victimized or with a child who has been victimized, its had not to ask "what if?" about every situation. fact of the matter is, kate's mother, i'm sure, was very cautious, likely didnt let kate out of her site, and probably did have that "what if?" on the back of her mind with the action she would take if any hint of action was needed. you can't accuse everyone who sits next to you on a plane or the metro as a sexual predator, you should be cautious and always keep your children safe, but not teach them to be in constant fear.

Vonnie

1/14/2014 02:56:02 am

Don't listen to the insults, Gitan! I strongly believe in parent's intuition and if your mommy/daddy senses are going off, you go with that instinct! Your daughter's safety is more important than a stranger's feelings. Obviously, the situation on the plane was very different than the one you experienced on the metro, but there's no reason not to be cautious. I would also monitor the situation every second, which it seems to me this mother was doing. Lots of little kids are indiscriminate about who they call "mama" and "daddy" and I think this man understood that, but you can never be too careful. My son has autism. He's 12 and has no sense of stranger danger at all so I have to have it for him.

shani

1/14/2014 03:10:19 am

im sorry but with such a wonderful story this is what i feel the worst comment ive seen why would that be what you think about with such an amazing letter. the point wasn't being called daddy it was accepting her and engaging her and allowing her to be herself without question.i feel this comment rubbed me the wrong way.

Jorge

1/14/2014 05:10:00 am

You, idiot, have completely missed the point. She called him "Daddy" not because she thought he was her daddy, but rather as a term of trust.

Euan Purved

1/14/2014 05:34:49 am

Get a grip. Not every bloke is a paedo. It's folk like you that prevent kids living a normal happy life

Matt

1/14/2014 08:47:09 am

And everyone you meet is an axe murderer or serial rapist or . . . . ?

crrodriguez

1/14/2014 09:10:49 am

Gitan, your comment reflects the reason why the world has become so cruel and indifferent.

Children are victimized most of the time by caregivers or people the parents know. You have bought into the delusion of "stranger danger", a very dangerous superstition with no factual basis in reality.

Jay

1/14/2014 10:00:25 am

You are the reason why men like myself are now too paranoid to be kind, attentive, and give time to someone else's child simply because we are good people.
Thanks.

marshall

1/14/2014 10:36:26 am

Your instant reactive judgement totaly reflects the opposite of Kates Mom's story. Even children who do not have disabilities are looked over by adults. This in my opinion is why our youth take guns to schools or seek drugs perhaps. I really can't watch this travesty at times. My thoughts immediately are to point out to such adults that rven the smaalest child is a HUMAN BEING. A small YOU!!

Mommytoher link

1/14/2014 12:41:20 pm

This is obviously a mother who cares deeply for her daughter. Being a mother myself, I can assure you that this woman would have a motherly instinct that would have VERY quickly identified this man as a threat to her precious angel. It sounds to me like she was fortunate that YOU (Gitan) didn't sit next to her. That, I can imagine, would have been a much less positive experience for her and her daughter. Someone who can so quickly put a sick twist on a beautiful story must surely be a pessimist!

john

1/14/2014 05:29:42 pm

your the sick one;
its always other peoples responsibility to do the right thing against your failures.

Charlie

1/14/2014 10:12:46 pm

I read this story and thought "wow, fantastic, there is hope for the world”. I would like to think that I would be like the fellow “daddy”. I also suspect that if it were to happen to me in real life, I would be so scared of being regarded with suspicion, of being asked to move by paranoid air line staff, of being regarded with “looks” from fellow passengers, that I would indeed just settle for giving the mother “the look” and keeping my head down thereafter. And this fills me with such sadness. And I hate how it has come to this.

Paula

1/15/2014 01:58:16 am

You must have missed where the mom CANDIDLY explained that the daughter has autism and her calling a stranger "daddy" was nothing more than an association with safe feeling. As a mother I am sure you know that when child is or isn't comfortable you will know. When a man goes along with being called daddy it could mean that maybe he is a daddy... oh red flag America there is more than one daddy! seriously sad what happen to your daughter not trying to take that away but newsflash there are still decent human beings... and maybe they have hidden stories as to why the are as kind and loving as they are... who are you to rain on their parade?!

GoodOleVet

1/15/2014 03:29:34 am

When a child calls a stranger "Daddy", it shouldn't raise red flags, maybe a yellow "caution" flag accompanied by close attention. If you go around raising red flags in every unusual situation you're simply isolating the child and that's the last thing an autistic child needs. Give the "leash" a little slack rather than closing the child off from the real world.
This man and I have a lot in common - in the same situation, I'd have done exactly as he did. I love people, children in particular, and I'm not afraid to manifest it openly! You cannot possibly find love by being a closed person.

Gitan

1/15/2014 04:32:48 am

I never said that women could not be sexual predators. This story was about a male stranger and my daughter had a traumatic experience with a male who exposed himself to her.

The man who exposed himself to my daughter spoke kindly to her and smiled. He was wearing professional/office clothing. I could easily seem him playing along with the "daddy" thing. He had his private part hidden under a briefcase/bag and then when he knew my daughter would see it, he moved the bag over, trying to block my view of what he was doing. Something made me look over at him, and that's when I saw what he was doing.

My daughter did not react negatively. She was confused. She just stared.

This story was shared to my Facebook by a friend...and immediately I thought how lucky this girl was that she was not sitting next to the man we saw on the metro.

Bart

1/15/2014 04:33:56 am

Gitan, I'm truly sorry for whatever happened in your life that is the cause of this attitude.

Sarah

1/15/2014 10:13:41 am

This is an AMAZING story, and I think Gitan saw that too - all she was saying is how lucky this girl was that the man was not an actual creeper like the one her daughter encountered...and very sadly, the ones who many young girls have had the horror of dealing with.

I'm a 3rd grade teacher (and former child and youth counselor) and am writing during a hectic time of year for me to try to try to explain where this is coming from. The sheer number of little girls and boys who are sexually molested by people with this exact same personality is disturbing - you can't even imagine how many I've dealt with or heard about in the last several years. Sure, we all hope and most probably assumed this guy was just a nice awesome guy (and he probably was!) but what I believe Gitan was pointed out was that many people with this personality are true sexual predator types. Very sad but very true. Google search pedophile personality if you don't believe me. I remember learning this very early on in my work with children. Pedophiles who act on their desires are often very good at 'charming' young children. It is an acquired skill if you will. This is a disturbing but true fact and why you should always listen to your instincts (with BOTH strangers and those known to your child). It is sad Gitan had to bring this up but I give kudos to her for being realistic - you wouldn't believe the sheer number of parents who aren't aware of these grave realities....and the disturbing number of kids who suffer harm as a result.

The only way I can grasp this horrible attack on a very realistic point that Gitan brought up is to believe these ppl are too (luckily) naive or uninformed enough to understand some types of men (and to a small statistical minority - women) who sexually harm children everyday. I wish my line of work left me less aware of "who" these people are. There are many days that I wish I could be like people like you, who think Gitan is so horrible for bringing this up because you believe it to be so irrelevant. But I don't.... because I can't ..... Because I have watched too many young kids lives literally fall about because of their attackers. I simply know all too well how much a child's life can be ruined by pedophiles who act on their impulses. And parents who have NO CLUE that ''nice caring friendly man" is/was the one harming their child (often not until many years later).

What most people can hopefully understand is the Gitan wasn't saying this man IS a pedophile - she is saying BE CAREFUL about anyone who takes an interest in your kid. Professionally, this is valid and realistic. I agree - calling another man "Daddy" is not appropriate and someone who doesn't at least mention his real name as a kind correction to the child is a tad strange. I only have these suspicions because of what I know about pedophiles and how they operate. Again, I don't want to say this (!!) but I believe parents need to understand the reality out there.

I guess what I'm trying to say, is Gitan sounds like a mother who cares about her children's well being .... not some awful person like some of you make her sound. THE REAL ISSUE are: the MEN (97%) and WOMEN (3%) who harm young children and to a much less extent the parents who don't information themselves on these realities thus potentially putting their children in harms way.

I'm sure Gitan would have loved to comment how lovely this article is because it is a great one! But her experiences (which thankfully don't even remotely compare to some of the sexual horrors I have heard young children disclose) don't make her a bad person for encouraging others to be cautious. The real issue is WHY perpetrators harm children and WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT. Not some mother posting on a comment board.

My greatest wish on this earth, as a teacher and mother, is that less children get hurt because of people like this. All the hate comments I'll probably receive will be worth it if ONE parent reads this comment and listens closely to that gut instinct about people, especially men who take an interest in their kid .. (and I'm sorry I emphasize men but that's purely statistical, not hypocritical - stats don't lie) I credit Gitan for making a valid point about the importance of child safety regardless of the haters who have some learning to do in this area.

On a side note - thank you to the author for a wonderful story. There ARE lots of good people in the world. I have to remind myself of this many a day .. so I appreciate a good read like this. I like the believe this man was just a good person! But that being said, I'd never leave my child alone with him.

Sherry

1/15/2014 10:56:27 am

I disagree that a "man who goes along with being called "Daddy" by a little girl" should raise red flags. Why? because he was understanding enough to know that a 3 year old (whether one can tell she is autistic or not) doesn't necessarily "get" that every man isn't called "daddy"? Because he was kind? My heart goes out to you and to your daughter for your terrible experience, but I hope you can come to believe that everyone (or perhaps, every man, specifically) who is kind to a child might simply be a kind person with a kind heart and good soul.... Not every man who likes children, who is kind to them, who goes along with being called "daddy" by a small child, has bad ulterior motives. Sometimes, people are just kind. Again, I AM sorry for your experience...

Patricia Brecheisen

1/15/2014 01:15:27 pm

I disagree. I understand your concern, but just don't think every man should be considered a threat that allows a child to call him 'Daddy' without correcting her.

Jenn

1/15/2014 03:43:24 pm

Sorry your daughter and you had a bad experience with meeting "A" pedophile on the metro. But don't let that one person make you think that is something that normally happens, or that even any other man you and your daughter will ever meet in the future has those thoughts. Most of my friends are male and I have never felt more safe when my children and I are with any of them, and none of them mind a child calling them Dad or Daddy. Most caring people will not correct a child unless they feel it's for their safety, mistaking their name is not a risk. Don't let one experience ruin your daughter's belief in the good of mankind and if you think so, she will probably as well.

Mel

1/16/2014 02:49:47 am

You really don't have to take a sweet story and turn it into something horrible. Nothing is going to happen with the mother sitting right there and the guy never asked to be alone with her. Sometimes good is just good.

Tex Doc

1/16/2014 03:45:12 am

So sad that this lovely event turned onto this mess of comments, but it shows me once again that there is no alternative in this setting but to turn away and ignore even delightful little girls like this.
My "no strangers in this world" bride made dozens of airport/airplane/bus friends on our recent trip to Australia and New Zealand, but this grandfather of three knows better than to even smile at the kids in tow with parents for fear of accusation or distrust.
As a physician I have provided care to a wide variety of the traveling public in sudden and often humiliating illnesses, held one twin while an overwhelmed young military spouse fed another and cared for a third toddler - ignored in her plight by a very stuffy and negligent stewardess (back in the day when that was in fact the title...) but feel less and less willing to pitch in or assist with the growth of this female centric hostility. You get what you incentivise, as the economists note - and the demonization of men will get you men not willing to provide assistance or any form of gallantry indeed.

Turn your frown upside down

1/16/2014 11:33:34 am

Gitan, I'm so sad for you! I understand that your bad experience has made you leery of people and you have every right to that but I hope someday you will find peace and see that this story is just GOOD... period!

Terry in Montreal

4/17/2015 09:42:48 am

Please read Gitans statement closely before you feel the need to lambaste him so soundly. It does make some sense. Not in this case but in some cases it does.

I am truly sad for you Gitan that this happened to your daughter. Unfortunately this is what the world has come to. I wish you and your daughter peace and hope that you both heal from this one day.

Angel

1/16/2014 11:47:32 pm

Although, Katy's mother was right there observing her daughter and all actions taking place. I don't think a person would have done that.

This man was an Angel in disquise and made the time to show attention to this 3 yr young Angel. What a lovely connection to both sides and for the Mom to observe and learn from.

There are some nice people in and around the world. Everyone just needs to take a deep breath and live in the moment to grasp our "earthy time".

Courtney link

1/9/2014 12:23:19 am

<3 what an amazing "daddy" :)

Lisa

1/14/2014 05:56:13 pm

This is for Richard Pawley:
WOW! Reading your comment (just a few lines in) I can honestly say that I feel the LOVE OF GOD POURING OUT OF YOU and into your message. My intention was to read this WONDERFUL story and as soon as I can wipe the tears away respond by saying what an AWESOME and KIND soul "Daddy" is and how BLESSED KATE'S family is to have her in their lives because in my opinion, God picks SPECIAL people to raise SPECIAL children (and by special I mean TOUCHED BY GOD!) But I must turn my attention to YOU Mr. Pawley! You have been "hand picked" to go through this life to be EVERYTHING to EVERYONE. You may not have biological children but I am willing to bet my last dollar that you have been a "DADDY" to someone. You may not have even noticed but the love you are able to share has in some way, been what was missing in someone's life. I may never get the chance to meet you but the love I feel from your comment (spirit recognizes spirit) please allow me to give YOU a BIG DADDY HUG (via internet) LOL!
My prayer for you sir, "God please continue to use my brother Richard to bring smiles, reassure broken hearts, shed light and be a comfort those who need it most. I ask that you God, bless my brother Richard so much that the blessed say "He's blessed".
Dear Brother in Christ, everything I pray for myself I pray for you! May you continue to do God's will and keep being "Daddy" to those who God sends your way.
We won't meet in this life but I will see you in our Father's Kingdom. I'll be holding the sign that says "your sister from the blog" so you'll be sure to know it's me (LOL)
It was no accident that I read your comment! God knows just what we need...and when! I needed to read this...this message was meant for me!!!

Lucinda

1/15/2014 01:33:44 am

I'm not hugely religious but that was such a beautiful comment Richard Pawley. Wishing you all the happiness you deserve.

Jaimee

1/9/2014 05:07:21 am

All it took was a little understanding from someone who looked like they may not be understanding. There are some good hearted people out there still! I have had many parents apologize to me if their kids seem to bother me. But hey, I have kids with special needs. I get it. I just wish more people would take a moment to be more understanding. It doesn't take much! Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.

Donovan link

1/10/2014 12:19:41 am

My best friend, Mary, has a daughter with autism who I consider to be just about the greatest thing since sliced bread. I consider it an honor that her daughter loves me and would not want it any other way!

Amber

1/9/2014 05:18:12 am

What an amazing story! I sure hope he gets to read this. If there were more people like him out there this crazy journey of Autism wouldn't be so hard. =)

Rebecca

1/9/2014 05:22:01 am

I was wondering if you thought about sending this to the airline and asking if they could possibly forward it to him.

Leslie

1/9/2014 10:06:40 am

I think that's a great idea!

Dawn link

1/9/2014 02:40:50 pm

That is a fantastic idea!
This story totally made my day :-)

kathy

1/10/2014 11:35:08 pm

I work with kids with autism and this made me smile and cry. Patience and understanding. Hope you find this super daddy.

karen

1/9/2014 10:02:47 pm

What a great idea to send him a copy if able to find him. This mom will never forget the kindness this stranger "daddy" showed. OMG so beautiful

Lisa

1/12/2014 05:24:38 am

I bet if she contacted the airline and gave her flight info that they could track down the gentleman that sat next to them. What a great story.

Lis

1/14/2014 03:24:22 pm

That is an awesome idea. He probably has no idea he provided such a good and human thing. These comments have gotten out of hand. Haven't any of you ladies ever had a little kid coming running up to you at a grocery store or mall and grab onto your leg yelling "Mommy?" You help them find their mom, who is usually right behind them.

Jennifer

1/13/2014 02:42:54 am

I work for a large travel management company and if you would like help finding this man I would be happy to see what I could do to help.

Heather

1/9/2014 06:22:35 am

It's sad that someone being kind and open like this is such an amazing story. This is the way people SHOULD be. Thank God there are some people who are understanding.

Karen

1/9/2014 10:41:01 pm

I have a 3.5 year old son with autism and strangers and even family can be so mean. My son is high functioning altwe eshough has problems with his communication and sometimes will get upset and throw a fit. The looks you get is often heartbreaking when ppl look at you as if you can't handle your child or when you tell someone your child is autistic they look at your child like he/she has a disease. The kindness of this stranger puts a smile on my face knowing he did not judge Kate or switch seats like some would do. I hope "daddy" gets to see this blog and perhaps it might make ppl more aware and judge less

maria katrina link

4/19/2014 04:41:35 pm

I never believe on love spells until i met a friend of my who told me everything about DR.OKUN who brought her ex-boyfriend back, even when she was telling me i did believe her because i thought that she also wanted the same fake spell casters to take away my money. Although i gave her chance to explain everything she has to tell me about DR.OKUN, i said to her that there are many scammers who want to take our money and i will never fall victim on them, even though my fiancee who suppose to marry to me in a few months from now left me i will wait patiently for another guy though i loved him so much. she told me that this DR is not a fake one that he is real and he has helped many people to get their loved ones back, then i ask her so how does this spell work and what is the requirements that i have to do before he can cast the love spells on me? she told me that i should emailed him on DR.OKUNSPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM and i should tell him what i want. i really emailed him and tell him that i need my ex guy back and he told me that my friend directed her to me right, and also why am i doubting his work? he said that his work is 100% sure and guarantee that no one has ever come to his temple and also remain the same. i became flabbergasted on his words he say to me and a thought came to my mind that how does this dr know all the things we discussed earlier. he said before he can commence on my situation, that i have to have faith and trust on him and leave other spell caster and wait patiently for his own that if i can say do all this i will got my lover back in an hour time. i said okay i believe and promise to work with you alone, then he gave me a form to fill which i did and send it to him with my pictures also and also the pictures of my ex-lover. he replied me in 30 minutes later and told me that his gods need some items to cast the spell on me and my problem is very easy if i can provide these items. then when i ask him that how can i get these items and how can i send it to him for the casting of the love spell, he told me that i should not worry about that, that there is a items seller here in his own country that can get the items for me. then i ask him how much will it cost me to buy all these items? he said $150 (dollars) only, which i send to him with full confidence, after an hour later he called me and told me that my problem have been solved that i should wait for an hour time that my love will ask after me which i did according to his words, when it was about 6pm my ex called me that if am at home that he want to see me urgently. i said to him hoped all is well he said yes then i told him that he can come, my ex guy came back to me and he was asking for forgiveness that he did know what came upon him. right now am so happy because i have regain my lover back and we are planning for our wedding that is coming up soon, i called the Dr and thank him very much and ask him what will i do for him as a appreciation, he told me i should forget and keep my money that he is not after people money but to help people that also need help out there all he need me to do is to give more testimonies about him so that people out there who need help should email him also that's why am here today to give my testimony. may they good lord continue to bless him and give him more long life prosperity and wisdom. this is the Dr email address DR.OKUNSPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM CALL HIM AT 2349034224808 thanks. REGARDS!!! FROM MISS KATRINA FROM USA MY EMAIL desmondmark03@gmail.com

Karen

1/9/2014 10:41:13 pm

Karen

1/9/2014 10:43:41 pm

I apologize that my post went up 3 times. Not sure how that happened

Karen

1/9/2014 10:41:51 pm

jeff link

1/10/2014 12:59:27 am

5 times

Karen

1/9/2014 10:41:58 pm

trudi link

1/11/2014 01:02:35 am

Karen,
Spacial children have special parent! Your post deserves a multiple post! ;) No worries!

Sandy Surette

1/9/2014 07:08:45 am

Shanell and Alex;this brought both a smile and tears to my eyes.Shanell I shared a story with you about meeting a mom with twins on the spectrum when we were unable to leave Hawaii;I played and chatted with those guys and had such a great afternoon putting in that unable to leave Honolulu miss all your connections flight home.you told me I was a
gift to that mom that day when I considered what a gift it had been to me to be distracted and have a great time helping out with her boys.they were helping me not worry that we might have to still go on that broken plane etc.I am so glad you got a wonderful Daddy who obviously was a great guy!!I agree with comment above I wonder if the airline would make sure he knows how he made her flight!!you did that for me by saying what you did to me and this note tonight reminds me there are lots of great people out there!!

Vickie link

1/9/2014 07:36:28 am

That is wonderful! Brings back memories, though.

Christina

1/9/2014 08:11:18 am

This is a beautiful story thanks for sharing

Jodi link

1/9/2014 08:28:48 am

What a wonderful human being!!!

Wanda Ball

1/9/2014 08:43:24 am

Now that is a nice man -

Lisa burgess

1/10/2014 04:10:04 am

Hi Wanda ! :)

Amy

1/15/2014 11:17:15 am

They found "Daddy"!
http://www.myfoxphilly.com/story/24464614/mans-act-of-kindness-on-plane-goes-viral

Lisa burgess

1/10/2014 04:12:40 am

If others only knew how far a little kindness can go!!

Laura MOEHR link

1/13/2014 10:16:57 pm

It would be great if propel only knew how little it took to make a difference in someone's life no matter what is going on. When you plant seeds of kindness you get it back 10 fold. I've worked with special kids and they are a treasure. It breaks my heart that people treat them different. Bravo Mr!

Vivian

1/9/2014 09:54:44 am

So awesome <3 I hope he sees this, and knows how much his simple acts meant to you, and to Kate

Daddy

1/14/2014 03:27:54 am

Hi Vicky

Candra

1/9/2014 09:56:26 am

I completely LOVE this. My sweet 4yo, Laura, also uses "Daddy" for safe, loving guys, and while she's low-verbal, I could see much of this interaction happening if we were on a plane trip. You brought tears to my eyes, and a quick prayer for some future trip that we would have such a wonderful seatmate!

Christi @ Away From The Oven link

1/9/2014 09:57:51 am

I *love* this. Absolutely amazing.

Kiki Walker

1/9/2014 09:59:01 am

This has made my day (my day is ending in an hour or so) ... I will go to bed with nice and conforting thought.. as it wonderful to know there are many kind and good people.. Thank you for telling this story.. and thank that man that Kate called Daddy.. and most of all,, Thanks Kate... what a wonderful finishing touch to my evening! :)

Benita link

1/9/2014 10:09:36 am

Hello, I currently work at an airline. You can feel free to contact me at the email address I added. Let's see if I can help! :-)

Debbie Hughes

1/9/2014 10:12:13 am

I know the feeling! My son who is now 16, who had Austism was reciting the Movie Finding Nemo and was at the part where the Pelican shouted were going down -well needless to say we were on an overnight flight and it was 5 am so people woke up in a hurry and started snickering at us but not everybody! So to that nice man I applauded you!!!!!

Mark L. Olson link

1/9/2014 10:18:43 am

Love it! Beautiful story told beautifully. I'm an only parent Dad of a now 18yo daughter with autism and nonverbal, but very sociable. We fly a lot (since she was 2) and she always sits in the middle. We've had a wide range of row-mates and never had a bad experience. I introduce us as soon as our new friend sits down and explain her disability and some anticipated interaction. We have, however, had negative interactions with a typical child of 6 who decided to use her seat as a kicking dummy, and an adult sitting in front of her who just HAD to lay his seat back into her lap, and a flight attendant who got openly hostile as we finished a feeding (when she was two) during the "please return to your seats in preparation for landing" phase of a 12-hour overseas flight. Good luck on future flights.

Jason

1/15/2014 11:10:45 pm

It's perfectly all right for someone to recline their seat. They are made to recline because it's bad for you to remain in one position for a long flight.
I certainly don't get upset when the people in front of me recline their seats.

christian.jayden

8/26/2014 04:55:21 pm

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United State Of America am now 48years old Am a Medical doctor in
California,I married for about 6years ago without any child then me and my
husband go for an adoption of 2kids male/female.Last years something
wonderful and gracious happened to me i came across this witch doctor in
the internet that promise to help me get pregnant which i totally
disagree,,,How can i be pregnant looking my age he ask me not to worry that
he only specialize on pregnancy no other. That after the job has been
completed there is no any side effect,that was how he told me what to do
which i did, could you believe i miss my periodical time that same Month
and i was pregnant.Today am now the happiest woman on Earth,,While am i
testify to this site i know there are a lot of people that are in this kind
of trouble some will decide to commit suicide. please just do and contact
him for help make him to understand from USA directed you, his email
redrocktemple@yahoo.com

Tonya link

1/9/2014 10:27:49 am

I understand what it's like trying to fly with a child with Autism, so this story really touched my heart and made me smile! I'm so glad this worked out well for you two! God bless "Daddy!" :-)

Brooke Shaw

1/9/2014 10:31:11 am

I love this story! Its nice to know there are still good people in this crazy world.

Kimberly Quinn

1/9/2014 10:51:43 am

I wonder if he had some connection to special needs kids? If he didn't he should. A person like that would be a treasure as a volunteer.

Sandy Hyatt

1/9/2014 11:06:01 am

"Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares." (Hebrews 13:2, ESV)

Holly k

1/9/2014 01:34:45 pm

That's exactly what I was thinking

1/14/2014 03:12:46 am

Thank you for sharing this story. Although my son does not have autism, he too has sensory issues and so often when people see my son becoming overwhelmed or acting out, they attribute this to bad parenting or my not being strict enough or him just being a "typical" 3 year old hyper boy and throwing a "tantrum" because he isn't getting his way.

Samantha

1/16/2014 11:48:08 pm

This is such a sweet story and such kindness from a perfect stranger. :-) That is so rare in the world these days.

Trish

1/9/2014 11:11:14 am

I have never commented on any link I have ever been forwarded on FB, but I had to with this one. It is simply beautiful in every way. I have a son on the spectrum for whom flying is an enormous challenge. The kindness of the experience and your follow up was importance for us all. Thank you.

Sarah

1/9/2014 11:16:00 am

"Thank you for not making me repeat those awful apologetic sentences that I so often say in public." Seriously? Way to go on your poor parenting skills. Lord knows we would not want someone to control their screaming kid.

Susan Wilson

1/9/2014 11:36:42 am

Too bad you don't read about the whole incident. No poor parenting skills shown by "mom". Its a thank you to a man with enough compassion to give his attention to a little girl on an airplane ride. Too many times people come under censure for having a kid act like a kid. Children cry and yell in public. Is it annoying? Yes. But by having a little compassion will help us to "endure" it. I was lucky. I had a "good" kid.... No crying or screaming in public, but I don't condemn people that have "unruly" kids. Why? Because I don't know their story. Next time you're bothered by a noisy kid, show some pity and compassion, even if its just to smile understandingly at the parent.

James Mom

1/9/2014 11:01:00 pm

"Because I don't know their story..." Amen! There is a story behind all of us. But Karma comes around, "Sarah" will find that out someday when she needs compassion from strangers and there is none to be found.

Brian Kieran

1/14/2014 01:34:39 am

Nicely put Susan. I usually do one transatlantic flight each year, and there is often at least one family with a screaming child. If I have the opportunity, I will give them a "Hang in there" and wish them the best.

Janette

1/9/2014 07:25:22 pm

Perhaps before presuming to judge another's parenting skills, one should walk a day or two in the shoes of a parent of a child with Autism? There are many kinds and ranges of severity, and sadly parenting skills have NO bearing when dealing with an Autistic child who has simply reached their limit.

This is a beautiful story about a stranger with the patience of a saint. It is not an open forum for people such as yourself to judge parenting skills and slag off at a mother who so obviously has had to apologise for her daughter too many times. NO parent should have to do that, but it is because of judgmental, impatient people such as yourself that parents of children with special needs feel they have to.

Shame on you

Angela

1/13/2014 06:56:45 pm

I fully unerstand what you are going through I am a student assistant and work with kids with Autism every day and love them all and some days can be rough but they are special people and getting them out in the public helps the public deal with them and they get used to them more and have a better understanding of what it is like for you as a parent. I know one of my students is in the public all the time and the public is used to him now and know a little about how he is. I wish you all the best. Your story is a great one and I would have done the same as your daddy in that seat. Have a good day.

Sheila

1/14/2014 02:31:10 pm

Thank you, Janette. I hate it when I see people apologizing for what they cannot control and what their child cannot control. Kids are kids. Period. This means that life around kids is often noisy, chaotic and a little out of control. This does not mean that if a child is not perfect in every way (like Mary Poppins), that the parent is "doing it wrong". Yes, there are parents out there that don't have a handle on the behavior of their child/children, and even some who don't give a flying flip about what their child/children are doing, but showing kindness to a child (and that child's parent) is never the wrong thing to do and if more people were like "Daddy" the world could only be a better place. I have worked with and around children since I was eleven years old and I have yet to see patience and kindness fail to bridge a gap. I don't understand when such negative comments have to be added to such positive stories. Which is why I seldom read the comments section and hardly ever comment myself.

Katie

1/9/2014 07:41:03 pm

Crawl back under the bridge Troll.

angel Six

1/9/2014 09:27:51 pm

If you think this mother was a bad parent lets revisit the story. One she brought many toys to make this trip work for her special needs child. Two she defined the boundaries for her daughter between his and hers and others (tough to do for some special needs kids). And three she had the patience to ride out the storm. As someone who has raised others special needs kids for twenty years these are not always easy. This woman is trying hard to give her daughter a full life and if you think it is "bad" parenting to let your child try the hard things I feel for your kids. I have sat in Burger King and spent hours and hours trip after trip teaching a child to conquer the overwhelming world of being out in the community as we call the world. And i have had people like you judge my skills and methods and yes many trips ended in failure but the day he went to a sit down restaurant sat through a three course meal and sat patiently while we paid... yes he won... now he can go out and enjoy dinner with his parent or his other friends or staff but "good" parenting lets a child learn and learn this little one will and the day will come when she flies like a pro. So to the hater above it is not bad parenting it is learning and it comes with time as some of these kids with needs are on the long term plan for learning and the day they win it means all the more to all their teachers, their parents biological, foster or house, and to those who love them.

Arwen

1/9/2014 09:53:46 pm

If you do not read the article please do not comment upon it. There was almost no screaming till the end of e flight. This is an autistic child. No screaming till the end is a small miracle. There were not poor parenting skills just end of patience for a child. This was a story about a wonderful person behaving wonderfully. Kudos to him and I hope for all the world he gets to read this or otherwise hear how his actions made all the difference on this flight.

Rebecca

1/9/2014 10:25:13 pm

Please go spew your hatred elsewhere and don't tarnish this beautiful story with your misery. Walk a mile and then come back and comment.

Eric

1/9/2014 10:28:39 pm

Since I was sitting next to her, I can honestly say I wish I can be as good of a parent as she is... I learned more from Kate and her mom than I could have on my iPad!!!

My parents told me those who live in glass houses should not throw stones... I hope you have a great day Sarah!!

Lori

1/9/2014 10:48:47 pm

Eric, Are YOU 'Daddy'? Your comment sounds as if it could be you. If so, thank you for your patience, understanding and kindness. If we had more 'Daddy's in this world, it would be a much better place. God Bless you!!!

Matt link

1/9/2014 11:28:08 pm

Awesome! I know you didn't hang with Kate for public adulation, and by the fact that the single comment you have made here was to set this troll straight tells me you're not pining for attention. Humility is a dying character trait. Well done, Eric.

Misty

1/10/2014 12:15:05 am

You're amazing!! :)

Jeannine link

1/10/2014 01:08:09 am

Eric thank you for your kindness. What a wonderful experience for you and Kate alike. I have grown children and five grandchildren and I know how impulsive and wired they can be in closed in spaces. Thank you for being the Angel for the flight that Kate needed.

loretta

1/10/2014 01:17:43 am

Eric I just want to Thank Your mom and dad for give us such a great person . I'm sure Kate's flight was not as hard on her as it could have been . Only because you were sitting next to her

Melissa wise

1/10/2014 02:19:38 am

You are exactly what the world needs.....

Diana

1/10/2014 02:25:59 am

Thank you for your compassion. Kiddo and I might be so lucky to have you as a seatmate on a future flight.

Sandie Becker link

1/10/2014 02:53:46 am

Eric, Thank you! A million, Thank You's....For the kindness you have shown to one mom and one child gives so many more of us hope, faith in others and a little self confidence in our ability to parent our special needs child! You are an Angel on Earth!

ann

1/10/2014 03:15:51 am

I work with special needs kids, and can I just say you are awesome! I love that you feel that you learned more from Kate and her mom than she did from you...its such an amazing feeling isnt it? Thank you for being so compassionate...

PUSHPARAO link

1/10/2014 05:40:24 am

MR Eric wow ! We need more people like you ,who show love compassion,
and kindness to others.God bless you SIR.

shireen

1/10/2014 07:59:40 am

THANK YOU, i do not have children, but i wish there were more people like you out there

Karen

1/10/2014 11:47:11 am

Eric, you are a beautiful person. I have a daughter with special needs as well, and have had the pleasure of running into others like you who are so patient and kind to my child. You will probably never know what it means to us parents. I have never forgotten those who have acted as you did.

Heidi

1/12/2014 11:31:47 am

Thank you so much for your kindness to this young girl.

Betty Jean

1/13/2014 06:05:43 am

Many blessings upon you, Eric! As the mother of an Autistic child who is frequently misunderstood, it gives parents like us hope to know that there are beautiful people like you in this world. One of the many hurdles that Special Needs children and adults face is acceptance and you are living proof of the positive impact that your patience and understanding has on our children.

Thank you.

Morgan

1/13/2014 06:47:53 am

Eric, thank you for being the man you are! Everyone makes the choice to be who they are, and I'm sure this letter is just a little glimmer of who you are <3

Sarah

1/13/2014 08:56:47 am

ERIC: You are a Blessing to this world! I am a older mother of an 11yo and flew with her as a toddler many times across country. My daughter is a normal active child and I had people tell me that I needed to control her when she was just talking about the excitement that she was experiencing. Thank You for being such a special man that just gave of himself to help another and spread a little joy along the way. May you be blessed beyond your wildest dreams as you are truly what a GREAT dad is! Love, Kindness, patience and caring is what any child needs and you showed Kate that selflessly! Your a true man for which I am truly blessed to have read about and see love in action! God Bless you, Eric! You are Priceless!

Kathy

1/13/2014 09:20:15 am

Eric, are you single?

dawson

1/13/2014 04:33:22 pm

no but seriously, are you single? you must be the most beloved man on the internet right now.

Adrienne

1/14/2014 08:27:18 am

what a lovely story. Yes it is hard bringing up any child in this society but to have a complete stranger relax into the Daddy roll of a special person well done. I bet mum feels a million dollars after this flight and you as well Eric.

Annette

1/14/2014 10:37:43 pm

Eric, I hope you realize that you and Kate have done more for autism awareness than a million miles of walks. You are a mensch! A million miles of "thank you's"!

carol

1/15/2014 06:16:36 am

Eric you are a gentle man and have made a difference in this family's life what a lovely thing to do.

Louise

1/17/2014 03:54:22 am

Eric, I saw you on the news last night...you are a very special person and you make me smile. I am the parent of a child with ADD and when she was little, she cried on airplanes because you had to sit for long periods of time and at that point 15 minutes was about all she could manage without getting up and walking in the aisle....we must have made 10 trips up and down the aisle in a 2 or 3 hour trip...God bless you for your patience and good heart

Karen Boemmel

1/9/2014 10:29:48 pm

Sarah, I hope that you never have a special needs loved one, child, friend. You really need to get some compassion, and understand that not everyone can be perfect like you! I have never been so moved by a rude comment like yours.

Tammy

1/10/2014 01:59:41 am

Sarah, you are clueless. As parents of children on the autism spectrum, we strive 24/7 to "control our screaming kid". We create visuals, social stories, scripting, modeling, visual schedules, bring favorite toys....lots of things I doubt you're aware of by your comment. When children with autism are upset, it is mostly that they cannot process the situation and feel unsafe and even are in physical pain. They are not having "temper tantrums". How would you like it if you had a headache and weren't feeling well and someone had no consideration for you? Parents apologize because they know that is is usually stressful for people around them and they are sorry. But you know what? No one signed up to give birth to any child with a disability. We make the best of it. And we love our children more than life itself. And as far as "parenting skills" go, any parent of a child with autism can tell you it is NOT at all like parenting a "typical" child. I feel sorry for you. And as a teacher and a parent who lives life with people with autism around me 24/7, I long ago stopped apologizing for my children. There's no need.

Tim

1/10/2014 06:43:22 am

I am fortunate to have these excellent people as neighbours. I am a witness to nothing less than utmost patience, commitment and dedication with gentleness, positivity and constructive love as the only concept. pure and simple. It is nothing short of amazing and commendable.

Lynda hunter

1/10/2014 07:11:47 am

What a stupid comment. Ignorance is no excuse

Mark

1/10/2014 07:45:50 am

I followed a link to this off FB so I had no idea Kate was autistic. Nothing in the blog made me think she was anything other than a non-autistic child. Sometimes they have all had enough. No matter how well behaved they are.

I hope this man reads this some day. I am willing to bet he doesn't think he did anything special.

Becky

1/10/2014 01:58:54 pm

I agree. I was thinking of my husband who travels for business a great deal and who might have looked similarly professional as he boarded the plane. We have three children and he is a warm and loving father, and friendly and inviting to those he meets. I kept picturing him in the role as I read the story. I know he would have behaved the same, and that makes me really proud. We should all have such kindness. I love when people touch each others' lives. Life is just a series of experiences. Amen for a positive experience to add to the plus pile. :-)

jezziebezzie

1/15/2014 01:13:02 am

If you scroll up a bit, he did read it! His name is Eric & I saw on the news that they've all since been in touch. He likely wouldn't even have commented, but to set a troll straight - not for fanfare at all. Real deal. Terrific story.

shireen

1/10/2014 08:06:46 am

Wow, you must have been a perfect robot of a child, yes some parents do not have any control unruly children, but guess what, you have to make allowances, curiosity is good for kids, and kids will be kids, but parents should not have always apologies for that,specially when it seems the child has not behaved badly. This is not even taking into account that this child has special needs

Lisa Ann

1/10/2014 08:25:05 am

Sarah, you obviously don't have children and most certainly not children with special needs. Your comments (and behavior) don't reflect well on your parents. Obviously they didn't teach you kindness or compassion.

Patty

1/10/2014 08:36:03 am

Sarah, the blogger' child is AUTISTIC, read the whole post before commenting!

KarenK

1/10/2014 10:18:35 am

Poor Sarah. Not smart enough to realize this was a special needs child.

Toddy

1/13/2014 10:09:40 pm

I think you mean to say, 'a child with special needs', rather than 'a special needs child'.

Jaay

1/10/2014 11:10:44 am

Your ignorance towards developmentally challenged children is revolting. If you are going to congratulate anyone on poor parenting skills you should call your mother and father for not making sure you had the basic knowledge of life and the differences that make us all unique. I pity you for never having the joy of being in the company of a special little girl like Kate, but then again you don't deserve that gift.

Bill Brennan link

1/16/2014 03:56:08 am

This made me smile from ear to ear. I'm glad your story is getting so much attention. Most of what we see these days is about politics and the lowlife criminals of the world. I wish that the feel good stories would get just as much attention.

Alyson

1/10/2014 11:20:30 am

Sarah- obviously you fail to realize that Katie is autistic. The man on the plane, most likely realized how special Katie was instantaneously. I believe you owe the blogger a sincere apology. More importantly, know your facts before making harsh accusations.

Sandie Becker

1/10/2014 11:49:11 am

I think it is important for Sarah and everyone else to realize that it doesn't matter if Kate was autistic or not. Children cannot always be "controlled"! Especially on a flight. Even if she was Neuro Typical, chances are she would have become antsy and crying toward the end of the flight! Sarah should think before she posts on things she obviously knows nothing about!

Nanci Nedweski

1/10/2014 10:56:56 pm

Exactly Sandie! I had reason to take a flight with 2 small children - both just shy of being 1 and 3 - from Chicago to Dallas. That was close to 30 years ago, but I will never forget that flight. My son (10 mos. old) was having a difficult time with the pressure in his ears, drinking a bottle the entire trip was not an option, nor was sucking on a pacifier, so - he cried - a lot. My daughter (just over 2 1/2 yrs old) at first thought it was a fun ride, but was done with it after being in the air for about 15 minutes, then wanted to get off the "ride". I was not in the best emotional state at the time and was doing the best I could to keep my children calm and quiet as I could - but was unsuccessful most of the time. Several people let me know how displeased they were that we were on that flight, my apologies were falling on deaf ears. An angel came over to us, stopped, petted my daughter's hair and said to me "Don't worry dear, you'll be done with this flight soon enough and then the world will be a better place for all of you. No more apologies are necessary. Deep breaths." Smiled, handed my daughter a magazine and went back to her seat.

The person that said you don't know their story nailed it! EVERYONE has a story - some wonderful ones, and some that would make a grown man cry. Everyone deserves a break from judgement, as difficult as it may be sometimes. The angels that swoop down for moments of time truly are a Godsend and help to erase the nastiness of the unsympathetic others.

Thank you Grace for sharing your story ... and thank you Eric for being the angel that made the flight an exceptional one!

Britt

1/10/2014 02:40:25 pm

Sarah, you are a horrible person. And karma is not kind.

Lisa Harmet

1/11/2014 12:13:38 am

Shame on you! I hope you do not have children!! Heartless!

Greg

1/11/2014 01:13:58 am

Please don't feed this nega-troll

Deb

1/11/2014 05:35:47 am

Sarah, I pray that you never have to fully understand what "Mom" meant by her words. You obviously do not have the compassion needed to make it through the sometimes difficult days of raising a child with special needs. I'm quite certain you'd never see the good parts either.

Anna

1/13/2014 02:30:10 am

Sarah, you must not have kids, and if you do I feel sorry for them because they will learn poor judgement and low values.

jbennettkernan

1/13/2014 04:59:06 am

Sarah, did you even read this article? And I'm going out on a limb here and say that you are one of those people who should just walk on by and not sit next to a person with a child...I hope we never have to see an example of your parenting skills, because from your attitude, it is going to be grim.

Jess

1/13/2014 08:24:51 am

You obviously didn't understand this story if that's what you took from it, and if that's all you took from it. You also must not know anyone personally who has autism, or know anything about it in general. Do you even have children? They're all different. My son never had a single temper tantrum or cried for any reason besides being hurt. My middle daughter, who is two, flips out all the time. My youngest is still an infant, so time will tell.

CMS

1/13/2014 10:15:25 am

Sarah, you missed the point.

Eric

1/13/2014 10:30:28 am

What terrible thing to say. I hope your not serious

stephane link

1/13/2014 07:36:13 pm

Are you really serious ???????? who are you to judge (Judy) on a great shared story... lets hear a thing or two of your special , or better parental skills ... can not believe people sometimes , really ????????... you need to educate your self instead of .., no right there's no school that teaches what you are missing on

Sandra

1/14/2014 03:30:05 am

Sarah you are an idiot who has no knowledge of autism cause if you did you wouldn't have posted such an ignorant comment

Kindenver

1/14/2014 03:50:13 am

Wow, why so mean to Sarah, all kids should be treated kindly on a long flight. I have a disabled child and non disabled and they all get antsy and tired and deserve some understanding. When they are little, it's not all about discipline.

Thorsten

1/16/2014 03:47:44 am

A wonderful wonderful post, thank you so much for sharing, and I would hope that I would have same reaction that Daddy had. brought a smile to my face and shows to us how difficult it must be to have an autistic child.

marshall

1/14/2014 10:56:19 am

I have repeated these words to folks such as you sarah!! " You see a child through totaly new eyes when it's YOUR child"!!

Cat

1/14/2014 03:44:33 pm

Sorry for your loss Sarah. You must miss your conscience. Hopefully, your Soul will embark on a similar path to reunite with it. Unless you are able to empathize, you cannot fully embrace the delicate and most fragile part of Life. Embrace all children, no matter what. They are the angels we are responsible for. Not just yours, but all.

Amelie

1/14/2014 06:33:48 pm

Dear Sarah - 'seriously?' I mean, SERIOUSLY??? 'Way to go' yourself on your (equally way misjudged) concept of the entirety of the concept of 'parenting skills'.

Lord knows we would not want someone who thought the word 'control' - as opposed to raise with that simple but spot on mantra of 'absolute love, absolute boundaries' - had a place in their own parenting 'skills'.

Likewise, 'Lord knows' Dear Sarah, God forbid that someone who DID believe 'control' - as opposed to the VAST but effective array of hard work (and pretty challenging, but hey THAT'S part of parenting Dear Sarah) but effective methods that decent parents learn and possess of how to manage their child's behaviour as they grow - was an appropriate term to use was or ever became a 'Mother' themselves.

Oh, one last thing Dear Sarah. Lord knows WE WOULD want some means that allows us grown-up's to be able to 'control' the pretty vile other 'grown-ups' who DO use the terms 'control' and 'screaming kid.

Especially with regards to a 'kid' with Special Needs and clearly a VERY special Mamma.

Annette

1/14/2014 10:33:18 pm

Sarah, I don't believe you understood her sentence. As the mother of a boy with autism, you often have to say, please excuse my child, he has autism. Their behavior whether crying, repeating, walking differently, using a loud tone of voice, or screaming is often not able to be controled. You get terrible looks no matter what you do. If you don't believe me, please go volunteer at a special olympics event or at an autism event and see what it is to walk in someone else's shoes. Her comment about "those awful apologetic sentences" are the ones that bring us to tears every day. Acceptance and patience are a beautiful gift.

Carrie

1/15/2014 01:49:50 am

Sarah, sometimes "control" is not a word that can be used when describing a parenting technique. "Redirecting" might be better. Any child, not just a child with special needs, can at any time be over-active, loud or generally disruptive. As parents, we try to lessen the disturbance to the people around us. Apparently your parents did not do the best job in "controlling" you or you would not pass such quick judgement on anyone elses parenting.

Leanna

1/15/2014 05:11:52 am

My hope is "Sarah", that you don'y have children. At least until you learn some compassion and patience.

JESSIE link

1/15/2014 08:29:01 am

Sarah, please read about autism before you make any more ignorant comments...thank you.....

monica

5/2/2015 05:54:31 am

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Julie

1/15/2014 03:51:39 pm

It is obvious to me that you are a very immature person who has never truly stepped back in lift to see the reality of things and not just the ideal of things. I am not sure if you are a parent yet but I would venture to say that you are a person who isn't and doesn't want to be because of your own special reasons and that is because you are self centered and not for the reasons you make up to every one else. Thank God you don't have children because you would be that parent that I would look at and say OK her children are to quiet and scared, there is something wrong there.
BACK OFF SARAH, not every screaming child belongs to parents with poor parenting skills, they are real parents that don't threaten their children with in inches of their lives if they make a bad move. Take it from someone who had parents like that. When dealing with a child that has a coping disablement you cannot reason with them and you can't even beg them. It is a matter of trying to help them through their fear.
Sarah, I pray that the Good Lord gives you some insight as to how we should all operate here and that is will love and kindness. It isn't always possible but I pray that people have more mercy on you than you displayed here.

Danielle

1/21/2014 05:24:10 pm

Sarah, to tell you how I feel about you would require breaking multiple censors and being flagged.

My mother has often had trouble controlling my meltdowns. She's apologized with those same sentences. And while most people understand that autism is not something ANYONE can control, certain freaks like you just never understand.

I'm 28 with an IQ over 170, but I can't function properly without my relaxation exercises and certain security items. And if someone takes them or accuses me of being antisocial, guess what?

I SCREAM. Very LOUDLY. And it's because of a sense of confusion and fear, even anger, that someone would want to hurt me by taking away what makes me safe.

If you tried saying that to my mother, I'd deck you. She and all other parents of autistic children deserve respect, not derision. Take your calumny and stuff it in your duodenum, you pre-human parasite.

Natalie Walsh link

1/9/2014 11:21:02 am

I LOVE nice people

Stephan

1/16/2014 12:17:18 pm

After reading this article, my only thought was: There should be more 'Daddy's' in the world...

Greatings from Germany

DeLisa

1/9/2014 11:21:13 am

Stories like this remind us as parents to not always expect the worst of people. I find that sometimes I anticipate negative reactions from strangers. What a refreshing story and good reminder that there are a lot of good people out there with empathy for what is going on with our children.

Jen

1/9/2014 11:26:31 am

This is great! As parents of special kids, we are acutely aware of the acceptance and kindness of others and we greet it with a reverance. We don't take it for granted because, unfortunately it does not happen very often.

Toni

1/9/2014 06:15:55 pm

That's so sweet. I cried a bit. It's nice to know some ppl still know how 2 b kind. To many............... Idiots around. I REALLY hope he gets 2 c this.

Hina Ahmed

4/1/2014 09:59:52 am

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Brian

1/9/2014 11:45:05 am

His name is Eric. He knows of this story. He is a great husband to Barb, and a great father to his son Eric. He is my best friend.
He knows of this story.
Eric was just being himself...rare enough these days no doubt, but in no way does that diminish what he did for you and your daughter. I am very proud of him and of you as well for writing this so his act would not go unnoticed.
You know HE, the Man upstairs noticed...that is for sure!
God Bless,
brian

Nancy

1/13/2014 12:01:41 pm

Brian...I'm glad Eric knows of this story and I'm sure he us surprised by all the attention. His act of kindness should be recognized especially with all the hate in the world today. Its nice to read something that is not filled with such hate. His kind words and actions will always be remembered by Kate and her mother. He should be proud of the man he is. I know I am proud of him...and I do not even know him.

Elizabeth

1/15/2014 05:09:12 am

Brian, please let Eric know that this parent appreciates him, thanks him, and is grateful there are still true gentlemen in this world. My son is developmentally disabled and when someone takes a moment to be nice to him, it makes him so happy. Instead of being constantly shushed and told to sit still, quit asking so many questions, don't touch, lower your voice, it would be wonderful to have someone acknowledge him rather than make him feel that he is a bother. When someone is kind to my child it makes my heart swell with gratitude. Your friend is a very special person and the world sure could use more kind people like him.

Mare

1/9/2014 11:59:32 am

This was a truly lovely thing to read about, thank you for sharing.

Jimmy Nguyen

1/9/2014 12:29:28 pm

I'm literally in tears over the generosity of spirit and kindness that "daddy" displayed.. It may be that I'm over emotional from watching a heart wrenching Korean drama, or that this truly hit the soft spot, but this was incredibly awesome to read. And know that people like him exist.

Jill Amery link

1/9/2014 12:32:31 pm

Tears. Of joy. And recognition. And words written in truth. Thank you.

Jane Gonzales

1/9/2014 12:35:08 pm

Daddy...whoever you are you are AMAZING :)

Cecile

1/9/2014 12:40:21 pm

What a touching story.......a good reminder to us all. Kudos to Eric! May God continue to bless you and your family! ......and to the grateful lady who wrote this story - thank you for sharing your story and May God continue to bless you and your family too!

Maggie Bonilla

1/9/2014 12:44:08 pm

This brought tears to my eyes! What a wonderful man, so glad you and Kate had a great flight because of his kindness. I have a daughter with sensory issues and so I understand when they are overwhelmed and had enough. I pray God will bless our families and so many others who are blessed with these special children.

charley

1/9/2014 01:27:44 pm

I often fly alone with my now nine year old autistic son. We've had good flights so good flights, and bad flights. It is truly a blessing to be on a flight an Sutton next to someone who actually seems to enjoy your child and doesn't treat them like a burden or a bother. On our last flight my precious boy had th guy in th seat in front of him turning around to have a conversation with him. As we were exiting th plane I heard him laugh and say to th guy next to him how impressed he had been by my son and that he'd never heard such a big vocabulary from such a little person. It made our flight so much better that he wasn't annoyed by my baby's endless questions an observations but rather seemed to enjoy them. Coming across people like these gentlemen make bein a parent (especially of a high nee child a lot less tasking during what is usually a highly stressful situation. I am so glad for you an your daughter you go to have that experience because I know first Han it's all too often exactly th opposite.

Staci

1/9/2014 10:46:20 pm

That is so sweet. When my husband traveled to Florida every week for a year and a half he would often come home and tell me stories of the cutest kids on the plane. We have four and our oldest is now in College, but I remember the days of melt downs. Our third daughter has major sensory issues and I can relate. She is now 14 and doing great. Have you ever heard of SIRRI (Sensory Integration Research and Rehabilitation Institute). Here is a link http://www.sirri.com
This was a wonderful program for our daughter, no miracle cures but it made an incredible difference in our lives.

Renee link

1/9/2014 01:59:10 pm

Reading this has succeeded in making me smile and also restores my faith in the kindness of strangers.

Hampton Dad

1/9/2014 02:22:22 pm

I wish we lived in a world where this was not an amazing story but a common one. I am one of those "Daddy's". Being a father is the best thing that could have ever happened to me and can't wait for my kids to experience it for themselves!

Gwen

1/10/2014 04:02:10 am

My optimism for an improving world is based on fine people like you. Being Daddy matters. Being joyful about it, as you are, will change the world.

Len

1/14/2014 03:08:05 am

Good for you, and high praise to Kate's "Daddy"!! Your little girl sounds so sweet; the love you have for her really comes across in this story. I wish you many years of continued joy with this precious little one.

Jennifer Shay

1/9/2014 02:40:12 pm

New to your blog and I LOVE IT. Love the honesty of a mommy dealing with the same daily struggles. Helps to know we are not alone. It was a mommy cry day today . . .

Susan link

1/9/2014 11:28:02 pm

I wonder if he has his own child with special needs? He clearly didn't skip a beat and completely picked up her rhythm....Good for both of them to make such a nice connection.

Tubs

1/9/2014 02:53:06 pm

What a beautiful story, wonder if one of the Basketball players would of been as caring. I doubt it.

Moises Cruz

1/9/2014 03:20:06 pm

That's story made my day. It's nice to know that there are still some nice people out there. As an autistic parent I know how it feels with our daily struggles. Especially when we're out with our kids and to see so many ignorant people that still don't understand what we go through. So I hope and pray you find this gentleman.

Crystal @ Sew Creative link

1/9/2014 03:23:47 pm

I have to admit... that made me a bit teary eyed. I love hearing about the kindness of strangers. :)

Mary Ann

1/9/2014 06:42:37 pm

I once had a young girl with Down's Syndrome sit next to me on a plane. It was obvious Mom was exhausted and overwhelmed traveling alone with 3 children. The little girl asked me all kinds of questions, held my hand, and smiled at me whenever I turned her way. She put her snacks on my tray. Her mom kept apologizing but I realized how good this lesson was for me -- that it was ok to slow down my life for 90 minutes and be reminded that simple, basic things in life are so important. A touch, a smile, and a chocolate chip cookie.

Sarah

6/2/2014 01:21:48 pm

My boyfriend and I broke up almost two week ago after being together for 4 year and 2 months. I am having a really hard time and feel like I'm getting depressed. We have talked everyday since breaking up and said we'll be friends. But I can't stop thinking about him and every memory we have together. When we talk to each other still in person it's like nothing has changed except the fact that I can't kiss him or touch him. It's hard cause my mom and his mom think we'll get back together and say it's just a break not a break up. We broke up because he was unhappy because when we would argue I would get mean and call him a jerk or a jackass, I'm extremely shy around his family and his mom said I've never thanked them. I feel so bad for doing those things and I told him that I can change that. I will never call him names, and I can become more talkative around his family and I will apologize to his mother. I talked to his mother yesterday and apologized to her and she wasn't even mad. How do I get him back.i ask my self i open up to my friends one of them told me she have somthing for me i ask what is that she said when we get she will tell me i said well no problem.when we got home she told me of a man named dr.abudu she is a very strong man i never believe her because she is funned of jokes.but night i was think of what she told me about the i said well let me give him a try i contacted him and i told him all my problem he just say to me not to worry that my problem is solve i said just like that he yes i was like thating him he later told me what to do which i did and today am happy again and we are married. does of you out there you to can contact him on email;dr.abuduspellcaster@gmail.com

Karen

1/9/2014 07:20:48 pm

As a mom of 3 typically developing kids who are now almost grown, I actually LIKE sitting next to kids on planes. I took a 12 hour flight with 3 kids who were within 3 years in age more than once, and I remember the exhaustion and the nasty stares when children behave like children. (I do think that parents should do whatever they can to keep their kids calm on a flight, but depending on the kid, the length of the flight and other circumstances, often that just is not going to happen.) Rather than try to sleep or work, it's better to give yourself over to the moment, whether that means talking to the child or just giving the mom a smile rather than a glare.

I am taking another long flight in a couple of days and I bought a bulkhead seat, so I will probably have a baby next to me. I'm glad I saw this now, so that I can remember to enjoy the opportunity to make funny faces at my seatmate, rather than being annoyed that I can't watch my movie.

msnovtue

1/16/2014 06:38:56 pm

Absolutely! Parents, do be afraid to explain your child or children have special circumstances such as asd or the like, or even that they're on the last leg of a 18-hour trip. A little explanation can earn a lot of understanding.

I admit, I'm one of those who periodically gives "dirty looks"--but in my defense, I save them for the parents who do *nothing* to attend to their child. And I mean nothing. I may not have kids myself, but my Mom was a 4th grade teacher for 20 years. Sometimes, kids are just going to have a meltdown and there is absolutely nothing you can do, regardless of any problems they might or might not have. As long as the parent is trying, you'll get a sympathetic smile.

And on a side note....

If not evey adult immediately jumps in and interacts with your autistic child, but at least tries to be polite but just isn't up to a whole plane flight-long session of interacting with your child, I just ask you to remember this:

Adults are autistic, too, and we still get sensory overload.
It's not really less grating and/or even painful, we've just learned to handle it a bit better.

So forgive me if I'm next to your child, and try to limit conversations a bit. I'lll be polite, but things get to me, too. If you need help, ask. I'll help. But please forgive me if, after a good 20-30 minutes of conversation, I say, "I'm sorry, but I really would like to read my book now. Can we talk again a little later?"

I try--I really do. But sometimes ASD adults can be just as easily overloaded as ASD kids.

Cheryl

1/9/2014 08:14:46 pm

Wish I could know if 'daddy' ever reads this story....

Jacqui @SnglPrntRetreat link

1/10/2014 12:13:42 am

Cheryl, see comments further up. His name is Eric and he responded to a rude comment someone had left. His friend Brian also left a comment saying this is who he truly is.

Thank you Eric for being a wonderful seat mate to this beautiful mom and child :)

1/9/2014 08:44:22 pm

The world is full of kindness
If it is let alone
And men's hearts, in their blindness,
Are neither ice nor stone

Dr. Mindy McNeal link

1/9/2014 10:50:56 pm

Isn't it nice to know that that people understand the saying...It take a village to raise children... Awesome story and proof that awesome people exist!

Tammy B.

1/9/2014 09:21:29 pm

Loved this blog! A few years ago I was traveling for business. I was headed home to upstate NY from California. When we landed in O' Hara Airport in Chicago, 100's of flights had been cancelled. There were tornado's setting off all around the airport, you could see them out the windows. There was a young pregnant woman with two little ones under the age of 4 with her. One walking, one in a stroller. She was due to have her baby any day. She had been on my flight from Cali to Chicago, and I quickly found out she was headed to Albany NY (same flight as mine) to give birth with her mother because her husband had been sent over seas for military duty. The airport was SOOOOOOOO crowded, they kept sending us from one gate to another. I stayed with her...helping her with her oldest child, holding on to the little girls hand. Finally at one point, I knew we were going to get separated. She had an utter look of panic on her face. I looked her in the eye and told her I was a mother of 4, that I would not steal her daughter, and that she had to trust me. I gave her my cell phone number, home number and my lap top placing it on the top of her carriage. I told her to trust me and I would meet her at our next gate. Which I did, when she got there I was sitting with her daughter eating ice cream (a treat I bought her). I then asked to switch seats and sit with her and the kids to help as they were all frazzled at this point. And we flew to Albany together. She thanked me over and over and I wished her good luck. To this day I often wonder how she and the children are doing? And if her husband made it home from Afghanistan safely.

R. B. Wood link

1/9/2014 10:50:43 pm

I was having a pretty rotten day until I read this. What a wonderful story...thank you for this bit of sunshine that was so desperately needed this morning.

RB

Peggy

1/13/2014 11:10:24 am

Tears and smiles all in one! How wonderful of you!

a terrible husband... link

1/13/2014 06:15:47 pm

Awesome story! Kudos to Eric. And big hugs to Kate!

Angie Koh link

1/14/2014 12:44:26 am

This is a very beautiful experience. Thank you for sharing, Kate.

LisaC

1/9/2014 09:30:11 pm

The kindness of strangers reaffirms my belief that there is much more good in the world than we pay attention to. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

Jennifer Miles

1/14/2014 03:24:59 am

Wow! It is my birthday and I have cried all day so far! Everyone has been WONDERFUL to me and I am at the library and read your story and WOW here I am crying again. Its a happy cry ,a LORD DO I understand you cry. Those people are one in a million!!!!
I believe my son has Asperger and soooooo get those moments. We can have the PERFECT DAY, HE CAN BE THE PERFECT SON, I THE PERFECT MOTHER and something never quiet sure what but his mind just doesn't understand and they just have a meltdown.I too have made excuses to people cause I always think they think its something I can control.
Even though it was not us on the plane I would hug that man and cry . He and your daughter are a gift from GOD and I'm soooo GLAD he picked him to sit next to your BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER!!!!!!

Krystal link

1/9/2014 09:37:34 pm

I love this!! It was amazing how he just embraced her and accepted her for being the amazing child that she is. I hope through some form of grace this man comes across this story and sees how much this series of perfect moments have touched you and your girl.

Heidi

1/12/2014 12:20:07 pm

see Eric's comment above in response to Sarah. Also, look at Tim and Brian's comments.

Alessandro Ranaldi

1/9/2014 09:39:22 pm

Sometimes in the world there is not enough vomit...

outdoors

1/17/2014 12:26:31 am

The removal of my comment just pisses me right off.

She is sitting there praising a man for his kind heartedness on a plane,yet when asked for a response about other airlines not allowing men to sit near children---silence and censorship.

CBC employee perhaps?

Tracey

1/9/2014 10:09:05 pm

I think this is so precious and very rare, also think you should send a copy of this to the Airline so Dear Daddy will see how much his act of kindness towards your little girl was appreciated.

Becki link

1/9/2014 10:14:49 pm

What a great story! Random acts of kindness can really go along way with us parents, can't it?

Anna

1/9/2014 10:37:38 pm

Dear Daddy,
I am a mother of five and someone like you can change a child's life. Bringing happiness to this mother and child was such an awesome deed. It is always stressful to fly with small children when you are flying with that children alone because daddy is at work or is just not present at all. You filled a spot in a child heart that makes you a very special man, one that would put family before work

Kellie

1/16/2014 11:40:08 pm

Best story of the year so far...!!!

Kirsten link

1/9/2014 10:44:08 pm

What a lovely post - and equally lovely seatmate you had on your flight. Good people are everywhere.

wandering educators link

1/9/2014 11:52:31 pm

How wonderful - and what an extremely kind man. I almost cried when I read this - I've given those sentences out, too, like jellybeans sometimes, it seems. Oh, life is good!

Yashy Murphy link

1/10/2014 12:05:06 am

In all the travel stories I've read and experienced myself this is absolutely my favourite!!! I love this and I hope the "daddy" gets to read this!

Kim

1/10/2014 12:08:59 am

Love this!

Courtney link

1/10/2014 12:09:16 am

Eric, From another Autism Parent, thank you! Thank you for the kindness you showed Kate and her mama! I wish there were more ppl like you in this world!!!!

Avie Layne link

1/10/2014 12:38:02 am

I was directed to your blog through a FaceBook link. I read with tears in my eyes remembering how strangers (and friends) would react and give their "parental advice" when my oldest (now 32) was young. Though not autism, his diagnosis was/is sociopath, his behaviors in public were atrocious. In his case not the Charles Manson type severe, but of the nature where guilt and love are not feelings he will experience. I still remember his god-mother informing me that it was because I didn't read to him as a child. Though our stories are different, as parents, the pain we feel when our children struggle with what is not considered "the norm" is shared. Keep writing as your blog is a light to other parents.

Tara

1/10/2014 01:01:58 am

I just found your blog. This is a great story.

My son is autistic and I know what you mean. One day, he started screaming in the middle of tae kwon do class, and EVERYONE in the room looked at me. Of course, I went to him and tried to calm him down. There is no telling what set him off. He does have quite a bit of language (he's 9) however, at those times, he can't always use it effectively. I found your facebook page and hope to follow your journey as I go about mine.
If you haven't heard of Diary of a Mom, you might want to check it out. Another mom sharing her experiences with her daughter, also on the spectrum. She has a blog and a facebook page.

aneta jones link

1/10/2014 02:13:45 am

I am done now sitting and crying , looks like there are some people who will give smile back , my boy call all men daddy to xx

aneta jones link

1/10/2014 02:15:28 am

fantastic , made me cry , my boy got habit of calling man daddy to

Olga link

1/16/2014 08:31:48 am

BEAUTIFUL CHILD and EXPERIEnCE. Thank YOU!

Louise

1/10/2014 03:08:38 am

Just found this on a link and thanks so much for writing this. Have tears in my eyes reading it as I can relate having a son with HFA. "Daddy" I am glad you have seen this but I really do hope you understand the enormity of what you did - it truly makes such a difference - I only wish there were more out there like you

1/10/2014 03:10:32 am

You're a wonderful man "Daddy".

Aimee Giese | Greeblemonkey link

1/10/2014 03:36:24 am

This totally made me smile. Thanks for sharing.

Gwen

1/10/2014 03:54:29 am

Kate seems like a charming girl. I'm pleased that 'Daddy' Eric has been found and knows the joy of this story.

Shannon

1/10/2014 04:08:49 am

What a simply wonderful story!!!!

Jennifer link

1/10/2014 04:09:29 am

Thank you for sharing. Totally made my day.

Scott

1/10/2014 04:10:57 am

I came to the article from FB. At first I missed the autism aspect. I note the author didn't announce it. I caught it in the comments. The story touched an amazed me thinking it referred to a developmentally "normal" child. The added aspect made it even more touching. I've flown a lot for business, often over night. Flying isn't designed to be a pleasant/reasonable experience. We're cattle. We should all do whatever we can to help parents get through the experience. From what I've seen, it's rarely a matter of parenting skills. It's a matter of human beings who are not yet old enough to contain what most of us are feeling.
Way to go Eric! Team Kate, thanks for sharing.

steve

1/10/2014 04:29:25 am

I remember Katie as a well behaved traveler that kept me occupied on a what would have been a typical boring trip. The fond acknowledgemenst are all katies.

Devorah

1/10/2014 05:08:44 am

I am in tears right now, how incredible this man was to engage with your daughter, and also respect you as her mother...and how amazing it was for you to take the time to write him a letter of thanks. As I sat here wiping my tears I thought of an idea. Wouldn't it be great to carry around a small business card that says thank you on it on one side, and on the other side a small snippet to educate people about Autism. You could even give this to individuals who are not pleasant as a way of possibility educating them and perhaps next time they will be kind. Kate is blessed with a supportive community, and mother. Shall each of you be blessed.

Devorah

1/10/2014 05:12:16 am

I failed to also type father...I thought I had, but apparently it did not show up. My apologies on that.

Devorah

1/10/2014 05:29:41 am

I failed to also type father...I thought I had, but apparently it did not show up. My apologies on that.

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1/14/2014 03:28:26 am

wow!! this brought tears of happiness as a mother of an 11yr old autistic boy...

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1/10/2014 01:26:50 pm

I LOVE this idea...and am going to use it. Probably every Sunday in church....for those who need a little education....lol!!!

Bob link

1/10/2014 05:32:41 am

As a daddy myself this sent chills down my spine and made me proud to be a father. It also brought a tear to my eye, knowing that complete stranger could show so much patience towards a small child. Well done, daddy. Thank you, from your fellow fathers.

Bryan

1/15/2014 12:29:31 pm

That was my very same sentiment. Thank you for expressing it so well. I know that I couldn't have managed to be so articulate as I'm still wiping tears from my eyes.
Go team kate!

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1/10/2014 05:38:00 am

This is an awesome story. Thank you for sharing!

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1/10/2014 05:44:05 am

One time when I was struggling to get through security with 2 kids and the rest of my family, I complained to a stranger how hard it is to travel with kids. He reminded me that simply "it's sweeter none the less." I never complained again... I never took for granted the freedom to take them somewhere and be with them.

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1/10/2014 06:01:58 am

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1/10/2014 06:07:58 am

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1/10/2014 06:09:28 am

Nice to see that there ar people out there that accept us autistic people, thanks for sharing this with us , Adrian :-)

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1/10/2014 08:16:31 am

I have been a foster parent for 28 years and in those 28 years I have had 3 different autistic children in my care and have never been without one, we just received our 30th child before Christmas. I know the feelings of a parent when people look at them and think or say negative things, every child just wants to be accepted and loved and know someone cares. 3 more years and my autistic son will go to college and we will (?) retire. My husband and I have 3 grown daughters. One time we were at an event with our motorhome and were without our own children as they were in thier late teens and out with friends, we came home with 5 children 10 and under, thier parents picked them up later. People tease and call us kid magnets. Kids are better people readers than many adults.

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1/10/2014 08:17:45 am

I hope he see this :)

Jean Smith

1/10/2014 08:56:06 am

THIS MAN IS AN ANGEL AND GOD KNOWS THE WORLD COULD USE MORE MEN LIKE HIM...MORE PEOPLE LIKE HIM, PERIOD. WHOMEVER YOU ARE ..GOD BLESS YOU.

Lesley

1/10/2014 10:01:44 am

This story made me cry that there are still wonderful people in the world amongst those who are not, may this gentlemen read this and know that he made such a huge difference to your day. Bless him

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1/10/2014 10:52:29 am

That is so awesome! (: He's an awesome guy!

christian

1/13/2014 06:52:35 pm

wow... what a beautiful story...

with an autistic sister i know how you feel when people staring at you and you see them thinking 'if this was my daughter, she would be quit already in a minute' i learned that i don't have to apologise for my sister... she's just the way she is and i love her just like that... but i have learned to apoligise the people around for not knowing better...
i hope this experience with Kate can open the eyes of people and let them stop judging others...

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1/10/2014 11:20:49 am

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1/10/2014 11:39:21 am

My sister owned a small Bar with 3 or 4 cabins on a small lake in Tomahawk Wis. and was a single mother of three boys one of which was a Downs syndrome child. When he was about 12 a man who is famous in Wisconsin as he was a great Wisconsin football player and a professional football player came in and met him. He hung out with Buddy the whole night. And sent him Birthday cards and Christmas cards for many years. He to was a great daddy. And I would like to thank the family of Mr. Crazzy Legs Elroy Hirsh. Not sure of the spelling. Your Daddy was a great man.

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1/10/2014 12:04:01 pm

This was so beautiful! I'm a grandma, but I wouldn't be that patient, I fear. Makes me want to be a better person.

Dawn

1/10/2014 01:44:35 pm

GOD BLESS THIS DADDY! and any KIND human who shows compassion to others! My HEART IS FULL!

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1/13/2014 10:13:19 am

When I read this story, the 1st sentence, right out the gate, it had me. Its nice to see stories like this other then the crappy stories. Kate is 1 awesome little girl.

I bet Daddy is proud, I know I would be

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1/10/2014 02:40:21 pm

So nice to have people who can help on planes. When I flew to Hawaii with my 4 month old I had people come up to me b4 boarding who said if I needed help just find them. I needed to go to the rest room and First time ask flight attendent to hold him. Second time the 2 girls in from of me offered. They had him for about 2 hours just playing with him till he needed feed and changed. Then they asked for him back. (He was not a sleeper). Even the guy next to me offered (and did) hold him while I got his bottle ready. Love it when people will help with kids on planes. Sometimes just to keep them busy..

wanda

1/10/2014 03:02:21 pm

I recently had a plane trip where a young pregnant Mon say next to a "stranger dad" with her 10 is month old son. Child was not too happy to be restraint in his seat.I watch rhithis gentleman engage w the child until he fell to sleep but the best part was when the son awoke during our landing stage and the gentleman took the child from the mom so he could look out the window to see the activity until landing. Totally kept this little man happy and engaged to give the mom a break. Least that I mention we were delayed an hour before take off after a canceled flight the night before. We were all exhausted but this little boy, with the help of this gentleman made me smile and appreciate the human kindness for a mom who did not kno this man. Warmed my heart!!

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1/10/2014 03:16:25 pm

Sorry for the typos.....cell phonr

grant

1/10/2014 08:39:59 pm

nice to read, but i cant imagine myself or any of the other dads that i know, not acting in a similar manner if in the same situation.
of course there are some selfish, cranky people out there, but its not the majority.

Jen

1/15/2014 04:37:11 pm

Grant, I want you and the other dads to know that this was my response as well. I don't know why everyone is so surprised that a dad would be nice to a kid. I would have done the same thing, but I think people expect it more from a mom, as though dads don't care about children or men can't have compassion or adults don't want to play with turtles. (It sounded like not just turtles, but NINJA Turtles. Who wouldn't want to play with TMNT toys?) What Eric did was great, and I would feel the same gratitude Kate's mom felt if it were my kid, but it surprises me that so many people think being kind to a child is such a rare and impressive feat. Let's not overlook all the millions of dads (and non-dads) who care.

Nowamomof3 link

1/10/2014 11:01:15 pm

We too have a child like Kate. We are also going fly sometime in the future. My fear is always who will sit next to us on a plane. I can only pray that we get a "daddy" to sit next to us. thanks for sharing your beautiful story!

skelly 72

1/11/2014 12:26:11 am

God places his angels in the right situation, doesn't he. There should be more people like this. Beautiful story.

Jenn link

1/11/2014 01:22:49 am

I LOVE this story!!! It's easily one of my favorites. How sweet and inspiring! Thank you for sharing it

Donna

1/11/2014 02:36:36 am

Great story. I hope the airline can track down that nice man.

Heidi

1/12/2014 12:33:10 pm

His name is Eric. He posted above in response to Sarah's rude response. You can also read Tim and Brian's comments about Eric.

Jim and Lauren

1/11/2014 08:51:48 am

I think it's so nice to know that there is people like that in the world. I hope you find this person and tell him what a great guy he is. I hope he reads all these nice posts, maybe we can all learn a lesson from him. Take some time out and enjoy the little things in life. I wish you luck and I hope you find him.

Jim Buckley

1/11/2014 10:10:15 am

Oh dear. What a big fuss over such a non- event. Poser. Do you spend more time writing about life than living it?

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1/13/2014 11:31:20 am

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laurie

1/11/2014 11:19:20 am

This is a beautiful story.

Gwendolyn White

1/11/2014 11:38:51 am

It made me cry. I loved it.

1/11/2014 11:51:36 am

What a great story. Being a non-kid person who flies a lot, this resonates with me. I try to go through life reminding myself that I don't know another's story, so don't judge; but this helped to remind me that whether I am flying, driving, walking or sitting, I don't know what someone else's battle may be, and I should not be quick to judge.

Matthew

1/11/2014 12:23:30 pm

I'm a single father that has tried so much to be be with my child flown half way around the world and to dif worlds I never will see my child again I'm trying but international laws say she has soal rights but I don't give up that's a awesome man to do that but think any parent would do the same no matter what

Pam

1/11/2014 09:54:00 pm

I am sure there are more wonderful people out there like this gentleman, but we never hear of them in the news.
Truly a great story and should be expanded somehow to all.

Dale

1/11/2014 10:33:35 pm

What a beautiful story, I would love a seat beside Kate. Made me smile.

Karla

1/11/2014 10:47:14 pm

What a beautiful story! There are some very wonderful people in the world who just get it :)

Bettye Rainwater link

1/11/2014 11:19:03 pm

I love this story!

Karen

1/12/2014 12:54:27 am

Found this post from a FB link and didn't realized that your daughter was autistic until reading through the comments. What a blessing to read about "Daddy"! I had the opportunity to fly once with my kids (ages young 2&4). After hauling them, their car seats and our carry on bags through the airport and getting them settled on the plane, the person in the row behind us arrived, sat down and loudly commented "I hope they stay quiet, I wanted to sleep". I did my best but my son had problems with the pressure in his ears despite all interventions and cried through half the flight. The lack of goodwill from this one lady seemed to spread all around me as the flight continued. By the end of the flight we were all miserable. Kudos and blessings to Eric - not only did he impact this mom and her daughter, but his attitude probably spread to those around him as well.

Alison

1/13/2014 01:28:51 am

I'm so glad that Eric has had the opportunity to know how meaningful his act of kindness was to Kate and her mom. My children are typical, and for the most part, well-behaved, but I absolutely loathe going out into the world with the Judgersons who think that because they are not tiny 40 year-olds, that they should not be permitted any public place that is not "appropriate" for them. You know, like a restaurant of any kind, a shopping mall, the grocery store, or any public transportation system.

My own cherished memory of a compassionate dad was in the DVD aisle of a Target store. I don't recall exactly what it was that sent my three-year old son over the edge that day, but he was in the midst of a doozy when this man stormed aroud the corner, looking ominous. I thought, "Oh, boy. Here we go..." He walked right up to us, looked down at my son squirming on the floor, and said, "Oh, sorry to bother you -- thought it was mine. Guess today isn't my day for it. Carry on." With a cheery wave, he went on his way. This had the miraculous effect of making my son forget he was having a tantrum and gape after him. God bless you, random dad. If it was a strategem, it was freakin' genius.

Colleen

1/13/2014 02:02:45 am

So glad there are people like this in the world. I have a 4 year old daughter that has behavioral issues and I am due to fly with her and my 8 year old on a 6 hour night flight. I'm always worried about how she will behave cause you just never know. I too find myself apologizing for her behavior. I hate the way people state at you when she is having a breakdown in the store, which I think she has OCD as well so breakdowns over little things. Keep up the great parenting to you special and wonderful little girl.

Chris link

1/13/2014 02:21:38 am

A wonderful story. Remember this: people are LUCKY if they get to talk with your daughter

Our daughter (age 3) is deaf, and as a result, she will occasionally get a bit loud. Although some people will keep their distance from her, the majority of people are very nice, friendly and engaging. I've offered more than a few "awful apologetic sentences" to strangers, but they are usually unnecessary.

Thank you for sharing this wonderful story.

Marty

1/13/2014 03:03:56 am

Nice to know there are people like this (: I know if my family and I came across more understanding people like this, our lives would be a lot easier! Haha My brother has autism and there's nothing worse than the people you described who smile the 'manage your child' smile. It riles me so much, so it's nice to see evidence of a counter-action (:

Julia

1/13/2014 03:29:56 am

Have none of you ever been somewhere, exhausted, cranky and just plain worn out? And a screaming child is just one more needle in your brain? I can totally understand Sarah's comment about wishing more parents would remove or control their screaming or unruly child. This wasn't the case here, it was a totally different situation, and perhaps Sarah didn't see the big picture, but the outpouring of nastiness towards her wasn't at all kind, and Eric's comment was pleasant, succinct and corrective. The seriously unkind words to Sarah do a disservice to Eric's kindness. Gentle and understanding as Eric was with Kate, that was an example to follow. Maybe less condemnation towards people who don't understand, would honor Eric's good deed. I have two kids, one 21 and one 12. There have been a few times when either of my children was small and they had meltdowns, I (and those around me) were lucky that not only did I have the ability to remove my kids, but I had the respect for others to KNOW to do so. I don't see that you could do much removing on a plane, and I think we all understand that. But feeling irritated about a screaming child doesn't make you a bad person. It just makes you human. I say, good on you Eric, and the rest of us? Leave off the gang mentality shaming of Sarah. It doesn't make anyone look good in one breath being unkind to one person, while praising the kindness of another.

judy

1/13/2014 12:09:48 pm

Julia, thank you for articulating what I've been trying to find a way to write down. I have been both the kindly, helpful, fellow passenger...as well as the one who was "exhausted, cranky and just plain worn out". As many people here have said, everyone has a story. "The seriously unkind words to Sarah do a disservice to Eric's kindness." We're all human, we should all strive to be kind.

Pam Sohan

1/14/2014 12:03:56 am

As the mother of an Austistic son, that was not always well received when he was small, I had tears in my eyes reading this. What a wonderful extra ordinary human being that man was. God truly put him in that seat. Thanks for sharing such a wonderful story. Too often we only hear about people that have the opposite reaction to children with "special needs."

Cade

1/14/2014 05:04:03 am

I understand what you're saying. I think the easiest thing to do is to remember that the kids have it worse off than you do. Most children don't start screaming for no reason. I know that anyone screaming can be irritating, but it is important to remember that a smile will make their day more than a frown or a nasty comment.

Cade

1/14/2014 05:04:54 am

I understand what you're saying. I think the easiest thing to do is to remember that the kids have it worse off than you do. Most children don't start screaming for no reason. It is important to remember that a smile will make their day more than a frown or a nasty comment. I also agree, though, that we shouldn't post multiple comments targeting someone. One person explaining their opinion to them is really enough.

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1/14/2014 05:05:09 am

April

1/13/2014 03:44:24 am

It is so wonderful to hear stories like this. Especially with all the negative stories in the world now. Thank you Eric and all the other "daddies" and "mommies" out there for helping keeping my faith in humanity.

Lisa Ann Shampine link

1/13/2014 04:00:24 am

I saw this on Huffpo, then shared it on my FB...My cousin Wendy ("Autism is a Trip") suggested I tell you how much I loved this post. It gives me hope for Wendy's son Jack and my nephew Wills that there are people out there like "Daddy".

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1/13/2014 06:58:11 am

My brother's name is Wills. Never seen another.

Cathrine

1/13/2014 04:28:46 am

My faith in humanity is restored when reading stories like this. I have often had to make transatlantic flights with 3 young kids on my own. You could argue that it is not necessary to drag kids along, but for me it is so that they can have interaction and a relationship with my family. They are normally very good little travelers, which makes traveling easier, but they are kids - not robots. I recall very well on one of the flights.where I did not get the seats I had asked to be assigned for us, but instead was placed with the three in the middle and my 5 year old son had to sit in the aisle seat across from me. He had a 20-something lady sitting next to him. To begin with she was fine, until she wanted to sleep. My 5 year old boy had curled up in his seat and had fallen asleep. During the night, he probably turned in his seat and ended up kicking the lady next to him - who abruptly sat up and screamed very loudly at this sleeping little boy to stop kicking her!! He was asleep and woken up by another adult screaming at him!! His hurt and confused little face looked at me with wide questioning eyes saying "Mamma, what did I do?" It was awful!!

One could argue that this lady was somewhat within her right - she had after all paid for her ticket and probably wanted to get some un-interrupted sleep without having a 5 year old next to her. But, surely she should have addressed this with the airline and not with our boy. Or she could have address me, another adult and his mother..

I understand that it can be hard to be a fellow passenger with "difficult" children in the nearby vicinity, but surely getting angry or making comments about parenting is not going to help. It certainly will not calm the child making the parent even more stressed, and trust me - if a child is screaming on an airplane, the parents are stressed out enough already!!

My boy is now 8 and he still panics if he has to sit next to a stranger on a plane ride. That lady left an emotional scar on our little boy, that I only hope time will heal..

Raya link

1/13/2014 09:02:56 am

I'm so sorry to read that story about the mean lady scaring your son. I hope his future flights are full of nice people and that someday he will be able to look back and laugh about how cranky she was!

Kathleen

1/14/2014 09:16:31 pm

Cathrine - I am so so sorry for your little boy. That awful woman had no right to scream at him, or frankly even be upset. Planes are tiny and it is next to impossible to keep from touching the person next to you. I hope she regrets her actions.

Lynda

1/13/2014 04:40:08 am

Dear Kate's Mom,

This story warms my heart because the Daddy in 16C (was not) but very well could have been my husband. You see, he is on a plane every week and he primarily flies cross country. Having and traveled with three daughters of his own, he knows how hard it is. He smiles and is happy if he gets the seat next to the baby or the toddler or if it's a Southwest flight, he will be the first to sit next to small kids. He knows how hard it is on parents, especially those traveling alone and he also knows how quickly they grow up. :)

Ashley

1/13/2014 05:16:35 am

Your kid sure doesn't autistic. I read your "diagnosis" post. As an outsider, it sounds more like you're a neurotic parent projecting your own issues--like not being able to bond with her child--onto her.

Autism is the diagnosis du jour, isn't it?

Mary

1/13/2014 05:53:23 am

As an outsider, you have no way of knowing what her child is truly like. Do you work in the field? As someone who does, I can tell you those diagnoses do not get handed out lightly. Autism Spectrum Disorder is labeled as such for a reason. It's a spectrum; a wide variety of different cases and people, all unique in their own behaviors. As an outsider, I see many behaviors of her daughter that would signal ASD. If you don't understand something, just ask questions. Calling the mother of a child with autism neurotic (or anyone for that matter) benefits no one.

Michelle

1/13/2014 10:23:59 am

I beg you pardon? I assume you consider yourself healthy of mind? Perhaps you need a check-up, Ashley. You might suffer from a disorder called BAR (being awfully rude). Don't judge what you don't know.

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1/13/2014 05:19:53 am

Some friends of mine have an autistic child, 9, who still cannot speak or use a toilet. Your beautiful story is very encouraging. Thanks for sharing it. (I'm sharing it on Facebook with a link from your blog, not from Huffpo, because I don't want Huffpo's graphic ad showing nine different kinds of sex to invigorate a relationship.) Cheers!

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1/13/2014 05:40:36 am

Great post, thank you for sharing!

Fredrik

1/13/2014 05:50:49 am

Hi,

I have no experience what so ever with autism, just stumbled across this on Facebook, but this story brought a happy tear to my eye.

I wish you and Kate all the best!

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1/13/2014 06:12:00 am

I have a 23yr old daughter with Asperger's and I totally understand. We appreciate the kindness and consideration of strangers who soon become friends usually. I also teach manners, and respect for both of my children. That includes apologizing for disturbances of others and hoping that they will be understand, knowing the circumstances better. And in the cause like Eric, they are amazing! Autistic children learn by watching and observing since socially they lack the natural skills of most humans. This makes manners and respect even more important. Both my daughters thank me often for having taught them well. The skills they have learned help socially and economically in a people oriented society.

Claudia

1/13/2014 06:40:33 am

Thanks for sharing your story. It has reached now to Sweden and those kind of stories put a smile on my face ( and many others)!

Heather

1/13/2014 06:46:34 am

What a beautiful, uplifting story. I have read it twice and have cried each time. Sending lots of love to you and your family...thank you for sharing!

Patricia link

1/13/2014 06:56:54 am

Beautiful story. There are many good souls, it's just hard to find them sometimes. :)

Ib Grace link

1/13/2014 07:11:22 am

Kate is adorable and you are lovely to write this excellent man a thank-you note and try to find him. I am a grown Autistic and my success on planes still works better because of the kindness of strangers xx Love, Ib

Ann

1/13/2014 07:23:58 am

Brought me to tears, so sweet

Tara

1/13/2014 07:41:31 am

I know your feelings, my son has ADHD and when I find people who dont roll eyes, give me looks or glare it makes me happy, touches my heart and makes my son so much more comfortable. God bless that Daddy! What a wonderfully patient man and what a great mom to take a moment to thank him! God bless!

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1/13/2014 08:08:20 am

What an amazing story. We can all learn something from this <3

Btw - your lovely story has now reached Norway

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1/13/2014 08:09:43 am

What an amazing story. We can all learn something from this <3

Btw - your lovely story has now reached Norway

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1/13/2014 08:11:06 am

Every person starts out as a child, and every single one of us has "issues" that our parents had to handle/deal with/excuse/attempt to control with limited success - regardless of parenting technique and amount of effort.

Thank you for sharing this story. Describing your daughter as autistic only shed a light on what her bundle of issues might be. Her ability to reach out and share her joy with a random-yet-amazing person who had the opportunity to sit next to her,well what a gift she gave him. What a gift you gave us.
Glad I found your blog!

1/13/2014 08:13:05 am

It's so amazing when people engage rather than judge. I agree, he must have smiled all day thinking about the super awesome kid he got to hang out with on his plane ride!

One of the coolest things I've gotten to do in my life is work with kids with Autism doing neuroimaging research. I don't do that work anymore but I learned a lot of things from the kids and always thought one of those projects I worked on explained high-functioning autism pretty well. The gist: kids with Asperger's and kids without Asperger's solved simple math problems and got the same scores. Despite the fact that they got the same answers, their brains "lit up" differently. The kids with Asperger's still got to the right answer, they just took a different path to get there. Of course all kids are different, and it doesn't mean that the alternate path can't be more difficult, but in so many ways it can be about giving them the skills necessary to navigate a world that isn't set up in the best way for them.

My little cousin is a great example. The public school system failed him miserably, he was a bright little boy prone to horrific tantrums that landed him in the principle's office. Of course that didn't help. After taking him out of public school and enrolling him in a private school for kids that needed a little extra attention, he's now in college. If you met him, you might or might not see that he communicates a little differently (he has Asperger's) but you would definitely know that he's got interesting stuff to say. He's learning to program in Python right now. He didn't take the typical path, but he got there with a lot of hard work and the help of a really awesome single parent and twin sister. It's absolutely not my intent to try and oversimplify an issue that is complex on so many levels for parents that live and worry and work to make it better everyday, but sometimes it's nice to remember they're just kids...loving, unique, complex, with tons of interests...who happen to get there another way.

Apologies for the ramble, you touched on a subject that is near and dear to my heart!

Liesl link

1/13/2014 08:43:34 am

Just saw a link to your blog post via Facebook and the Huffington Post article, and it was so beautiful. Lovely to know that there are kind, patient and accepting people out there who are at one time even strangers. So glad it was a successful trip for you and your adorable daughter! I have a good friend who has a son with autism and you both make such wonderful mothers! :)

MrTwoSticks link

1/13/2014 08:49:54 am

I wish I'd been that man. I worked for ten years with special ed preschoolers and 8 yrs in our autism clinic for pre-K. I enjoyed those children so much. Many many challenges all around (esp for moms and dads!!!!!). Such a good story. "Small" things like this helps us keep faith in our species.

ML Boulton

1/13/2014 08:51:15 am

Growing up with a partially abled sister, who is now late 40s and continues to gain that attention, I know the feeling, all too well. Those who show that special patience, are few and far between. Now, having two grown children; your story makes me recall the days of international travel (with or without my husband), when passengers would give us the 'crazy eye' then avoid us the entire flight. Once our 10+ hour flights would land, THAT is when they would compliment our 1 and 3 yr old for being such quiet, well behaved travelers and offer a helping hand. If I was alone, jet lagged with two sleeping babies in my arms and bags in tow (at midnight), I would graciously smile and decline. At times saying, "No thank you, I actually could have used your hands as we were boarding". Hopefully, one day 'compassion' will be a 'common courtesy'.

Big hugs to Kate and your family. I hope that one day, we are able to be graced with a seat next to Kate. Until then, I promise to continue to pay it forward with hopes that it is returned to you.

sherry

1/13/2014 09:44:49 am

Love your blog!

Michelle

1/13/2014 10:12:30 am

I read your story with a smile and tears. It's a strange world, where people like Eric seem to be of a very special kind. I wish more people were like that. Stories like this are like sunshine after a rainy day. I'm very happy for you, Kate and Eric you had such a wonderful flight together.
Special needs make you see the world through completely different glasses. Help and kindness come from those who you'd least expect from and rough words and behaviour come from people you thought would be nice to you. I'm in a wheelchair for ten years now and it was life changing. Mostly because of how people react at me. Rudeness can still kick me down, but it's the surprising acts of kindness that can make a day unforgettable.
I bet you'll never forget this flight and every time you'll remember, it will put a smile on your face.

Love, Michelle

PS: Kate looks like a real cutie pie! Much love to her!

Tom Hunter

1/13/2014 10:13:27 am

This, has got to be one of the nicest and emotional letters I have ever had the pleasure to write. To the gentleman sitting in that seat next to the little girl, I hope you are blessed with a long and happy life. To the little girl, I hope she will always feel the happiness and pleasures you gave her and to her mum, ma'am, I take my hat off to you and hope one day I will also have the pleasure of sitting next to you on a plane. Thank You :-) x

Jason Clayton

1/13/2014 10:14:53 am

Kate is simply beautiful. I have 3 daughters and I miss them so much when I travel.

Jen link

1/13/2014 10:22:36 am

What a wonderful thank you to a stranger.

Mommatopia

1/13/2014 10:50:08 am

I need to read more stories such as this one. I have traveled worldwide with my children, and now that they are older, I often go out of my way to be kind to little ones,,,,and all people, for that matter. I have been there and know what it's like to have to deal with cranky, mean people.

Jo Whitton link

1/13/2014 11:24:29 am

Just beautiful, brought tears to my eyes. There are some special, warm hearted people out there, and sometimes we're lucky enough to bump into them 'by chance'. Lovely post. xx

Maggie

1/13/2014 12:15:11 pm

This is a marvelous story. Kate sounds like a very special girl. What a blessing it must be to have a daughter like her and to meet a stranger that is so kind.

Taylor <3

1/13/2014 12:57:12 pm

Shanell this is such a lovely story it made me cry my mother showed it to me and it touched my heart.

Eric even though you didn't know Kate you still played and talked to her you are such a kind hearted gentleman and your wife and son are so lucky to have such a kind, caring and compassionate man in their lives.
God bless you Eric

Amanda

1/13/2014 12:59:47 pm

I agree with my daughter.
Shanell and Eric you are amazing people don't let anyone tell you different

Jay

1/13/2014 01:38:43 pm

A great piece. We have a son, now 16, on the spectrum. We know how hard those flights can be and, even today, as soon as the plane lands he can hardly control himself to get himself off the plane. Thank goodness for the incredible kindness of strangers. A good reminder for all of us

Marianne Irene Fredriksen link

1/13/2014 05:58:53 pm

I'm sitting here, in middle of Norway, tearing up on your touching story. I'm glad there is kind humans like him in the world. Incredible! Thank you for sharing the story. I hope "daddy" have seen it :) Hugs from Norway!

Nick

1/13/2014 06:15:25 pm

To "Daddy" you sir are the type of person that I would be greatful to buy you a drink.

People like you resotore my faith in humanity.

Well done

a terrible husband... link

1/13/2014 06:17:12 pm

Oh oh... my comment looks like it disappeared. Anyhow, just wanted to raise a glass to Eric and give a big high five to Kate for having such a great flight!

Unexpected link

1/13/2014 07:16:43 pm

Lovely story! Happy to read people can still be people and not mere robots.

Thumbs up to "daddy" and big high five to Kate and Mommy ;-).

Sjurd Vrancken

1/13/2014 07:35:03 pm

Such a beautiful story, speechless.
Thumbs up!

Glenn A

1/13/2014 07:43:38 pm

Small thing in live that will make you happy! No parents must say excuses to the world if your child bit different than others. Disability is not a correct word. They are just children doing children thing.

Paul link

1/13/2014 07:56:48 pm

Uplifting. Good hearts are out there. Thank you for sharing.

Erwin

1/13/2014 08:22:35 pm

This heartwarming story has even reached belgian newspapers :-)

Mike

1/13/2014 08:34:14 pm

I have a son with downs. This happens alot. I could never put it into words like you have. It makes me happy to hear such a beautiful story. Kate made this mans day for sure. He will remember her for the rest of his life i am sure. That is what our kids give to others (unselfishly)
God bless you kate and thanks for making our world that much better.

Josefa Altenburg

1/13/2014 08:49:23 pm

Just began my morning routine, I began by making a cup of hot cocoa, reading the news..Today is a different day and just what I needed "a dose of compassion, admiration, and uplifting". What a beautiful and memorable experience for mom and child! As a mom to a special needs child, I often get tired of offering excuses and the same explanation to total strangers. I am glad to see there are people who really care about others in particular children. How a little interaction/polite gesture can go far beyond human verbal expression. Thank you for sharing it. Your daughter is absolutely gorgeous.

Melanie

1/13/2014 09:04:07 pm

If I can Stop crying long enough to even leave a comment! Oh MY GOODNESS!! This little beauty just STOLE MY HEART! My 13 year old daughter was diagnosed with Autism at 5 and my 11 year old was diagnosed at 10 due to her difference of behavior so it was harder to tell with her. I Know what a blessing it can be to encounter someone compassionate like that! <3 This Story and would love to follow you and little miss Kate if you don't mind! I have ran across very few parents of girls with Autism and when i do I like to keep up with them<3

Kathy Mott

1/13/2014 09:06:22 pm

We are all on this journey together and are here to be present to one another. Wonderful story of unconditional love. Beautiful child.

Kathy Mott

1/13/2014 09:06:52 pm

Rhonda J Reynolds-Holliman

1/13/2014 09:37:09 pm

I cried as soon as I began reading about "Daddy and Kate." What an absolutely wonderful show of compassion and fatherhood this man showed to a little girl he didn't know until he found a seat on the airplane. He deserves "FATHER OF THE YEAR AWARD" and all because of a little girl named Kate. GOD bless you "Daddy" wherever you may be.

Marcel

1/13/2014 09:53:27 pm

Wonderful story, i read it in a newspaper in the netherlands.. http://www.ad.nl/ad/nl/1007/Reizen/article/detail/3577153/2014/01/14/Aan-papa-op-stoel-16-Dank-voor-hulp-autistische-dochter.dhtml

Ashlee

1/13/2014 11:03:30 pm

As a 26 year old "aspie," I'm floored by people's kindness as well as their tendency to be inconsiderate and rude. In my experience, all I wanted was someone to share my "quirks" and interests with. Some people called me weird, crazy, nerdy, and even creepy. However, the moment someone took interest in me and my interests, it made my world. I can tell you from experience that that one simple interaction is something Kate will remember and hold on to as a reminder that people are generally good and good natured, but the extraordinary ones will take a step out and meet you on your level. And that is what it's all about.

sung dude

1/13/2014 11:25:15 pm

Certainly a wonderful story. Your child appears to have strong verbal and social skills, relatively speaking. I feel lucky that my 4 year old son is pretty verbal, but conversations like your daughter had with "daddy" are still pretty much impossible. For many children on the spectrum, any form of verbal communication is not an option.
Anyway, I'd just like to remind everyone that children who cannot carry on conversations like this one need and deserve your patience and kindness just as much as Kate.

TPS

1/13/2014 11:32:20 pm

I normally display the emotion of a brick. This made me tear up. God bless you, Kate, and seat 16c guy...

Kate Milojevic

1/13/2014 11:44:44 pm

I'm sure if you ask the airlines to pass the letter on, they will. To daddy in 16c

Barry link

1/14/2014 12:53:09 am

I actually cried reading this, with so much bad news happening around us, more human interest stories like this need to make the new to restore faith in humanity. God Bless!

Tomas

1/14/2014 12:59:21 am

My cousin is autistic. I was always very patient with him. My aunt would say, "you don't have to talk with him so long... we know you are being nice." Honestly, I enjoyed talking with him. His views were honest/fun/different. Your story made me smile and kinda tear up.

Will Austin

1/14/2014 01:07:15 am

Thanks for making my eyes sweat at work, gah.. :) Awesome story. I have two boys 2 and 6, and I definitely understand how the looks other people give our children (when they're simply being children) cuts like a knife. We recently had a man at a restaurant tell us on our way out to "next time get a sitter". My wife managed to keep me from asking him outside for a more in depth conversation, and I just shook my head. My children were only talking and laughing at a normal volume in a crowded restaurant - I guess it was the "no joking section". Stories like these restore my faith in humanity. The minute you lose your ability to relate to children, is the minute the child in you dies. Jesus rebuked his disciples for rebuking children during his sermons. Let them be little.

Tracy

1/14/2014 01:16:21 am

Thank you for sharing this. My husband and I also have a little girl with Autism and sensory issues and I can relate to how unpredictable all situations can be. This mans actions are commendable as well as yours. I look forward to following your blog.

Michelle C

1/14/2014 01:20:09 am

I have an autistic sister and going in public with her you never know if you will get that "WHAT is she" glance or the "is she retarded" whispers. I hate that they call her retarded or ask me what is wrong with her. Nothing is wrong with her...shes perfect the way she was created. I am so happy that in this cruel world your family found a familiar face in Kate's mind to keep her calm in a situation that could have become bigger than anyone in seat 16C could imagine. Thank you 16C for being an amazing human being and not thinking twice about playing games or sharing conversation with a sweet girl like Kate.

PhilUK18

1/14/2014 01:25:04 am

What a sweet story. As a 24 year old man who tries to be something of a "tough guy", I rarely get emotional. This, however, almost made me tear up at my office. Bless this man, and Kate, who is a truly adorable little girl. Nice to still see some good news every once in a while. Prayers for this man and Kate, from Lexington, Kentucky.

Maicy

1/14/2014 01:29:25 am

Thank you so much for posting this! You don't know how much stress I've been having thinking about my upcoming family trip with my two boys, 4 and 2, coincidentally, to Orlando too. I only hope that there will be people like him sitting near us. My 4 y/o son has speech delay and likes to get people's attention, and he does go overboard more often than not. I'm so nervous about the whole trip, I've almost cancelled it 3 times now. Thanks for the inspiring story, I hope my trip goes as well as yours!!

RobAnitaTreyDuaneAubrey

1/14/2014 01:32:27 am

A beautiful story about a beautiful child, her beautiful Mother, and a beautiful stranger! God has an incredible timetable; he knew what he was doing when he made out that flight's seating arrangement! May all of Kate's days be shared with other thoughtful people such as the "Daddy" in seat 16C!

Yvonne Ramirez

1/14/2014 01:40:12 am

I saw the article on Yahoo about your plane , and it warmed my heart; my best friend has a 15 yr old son who is autistic and I have had the privilege to help tutor him for a few months; we use a program provided by icando.org and he has made great strides! He just had his evaluation and they were extremely pleased with his progress. I remember the earlier years when my friend voiced frustration and not having any answers. So awesome that you had someone so understanding, by you!

Lisa Arneill link

1/14/2014 02:06:45 am

This story is important because as a mom of a son with ASD I am often apologizing to people for my son's unique personality. He is an amazing little boy, but very different from other kids which often gets us looks when we are out. I love that this guy was so sweet to her. We do meet many kind people who can spot he has autism right away and go out of their way to answer his crazy questions or try to interact with him, but they are few and far between... Awesome story:)

Craig

1/14/2014 02:15:53 am

It is lovely to hear stories like these. As a frequent traveler, I see the many and varied ways that people of all ages and maturity deal with the stresses of travel. Having the opportunity to interact with little angels is not one of them!

I am a little concerned that you "despise" the smile that says "I can't deal with anything right now, I'm scared to death of flying, I've just lost my job, I'm on my way to my father's funeral, etc.".

Its great when a stranger can exceed your expectations - it would be equally great if you could exceed theirs, no?

Judith Perkel link

1/14/2014 02:20:37 am

Please sign me up on TEAMKATE!!! Mr. Kunkel has inspired so many of us to celebrate all our differences, and make this life better for each of us.

With Love, Judith, The Lioness

Nurul link

1/14/2014 01:08:35 pm

There is a team and we can sign in?

Nurul link

1/14/2014 01:08:42 pm

There is a team and we can sign in?

Ester Swennen

1/14/2014 02:25:36 am

Dear Kate's mom,

reading your story was very emotional to me. i live in Belgium and am 19 years old now. when i was 8 years i had a 'strange' friend. but i never noticed it. He had also autism. i remember that taking a bus with him was really difficult. so i can imagine how it would feel for kate to be in a plane. your story made my day and remembered me how normal kids with autism are. you are a really brave mom! and you inspired me allot!

Ryan A.

1/14/2014 02:32:05 am

Thank you for sharing this!

Bianca

1/14/2014 02:48:25 am

Way to go Mommy!
How wonderful of you to reciprocate his kindness with this wonderful, heart warming Thank You note.
Even if it doesn't reach him I know for fact it has touched many to think twice about shunning a child's sweet curiosity.
No crying child is a WIN WIN FOR ALL!

David

1/14/2014 02:51:30 am

Loved this..

Dean Pickett

1/14/2014 03:07:55 am

I have seen many adults behave badly on planes, too. They have no excuse! Children in general, do not do well on long flights. It is sad to see so called "adults" get angered at a child who is tired and bored. They expect them to act as adults...the complainers act worse than the children.
The next time you are on a plane or a train or in a restaurant and a child starts acting out....have some patience. Remember that they are children...they have their limits. Have a little compassion on the parent(s) and don't respond in anger, but understanding. This world would be a better place to live in.
I have a friend who has 3 autistic children. I noticed how my friend handled the children. She had so much patience.
I thank God for the parents of these special children. God bless the children.

Bobby P

1/14/2014 03:15:34 am

Well, I cried for about 10 minutes straight. I only wish that everything I read in my lifetime was about moments like this. I guess I would like to think that most people would have been like the guy in 16C. Probably not the case though. I know that I would have been a 16C Daddy. I meant that. I appreciate the beauty of children. I just want to say "Way to go" 16C Daddy. Let's spread the concept around. The world would be better for it!

Katina

1/14/2014 03:31:48 am

This was a beautiful and touching letter. People like this are very RARE in today's society filled with bullies and mean people. Very touching, indeed!

Allana Leigh

1/14/2014 03:32:35 am

I just read your story on yahoo; it really made me smile on this super rainy day. Moms like you are amazing and people like Mr. Eric are super also. I wish more parents could be like you. God Bless you and your family. They really are amazing! Your daughters are beautiful.

Steve White

1/14/2014 03:51:18 am

Thanks for sharing this with everyone. Great if we could all treat others as Kate and Business Man did.

Richard

1/14/2014 04:11:34 am

My grandson was just officially diagnosed with Austim last summer. He is a very intelligent and funny boy and I have the utmost respect for those who are raising children like my grandson. My son, who I am in the process of adopting, says that he can see a big change and how AJ has come out of his shell whenever I am around him. I would have done the same thing as Mr. Kunkel, children are a blessing from God and I love my son and my grandchildren with all my heart. My prayers go out to both families for peace and love for all. I can understand how hard a child with Austim can be looked at by our society and how some can be impatient when a child with Austim is having an episode. Thank you for sharing your story and I will remember how it touched my heart.

Kate

1/14/2014 04:22:20 am

This put a smile on my face. It was very nice to read. Most people in that man's situation would have ignored the girl, or given her mom the 'control your child' smile. It's nice to see there are still kind people out there.

That's not always the case. My friend had an autistic son in a similar situation. The lady next to him on the plane complained to the flight attendant several times and told him to shut up on many occasions.

Thank

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